Serenity
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I don't think I've ever actually written a field report, but here you have one. I wasn't actively gaming, I was approached while having a fun night out. Not sure if it can be called a proper field report then, but whatever.
I have a GF but it's always fun to practice a little game when the opportunity arises, even though I won't be closing anyone. Last weekend I was on a trip for a seminar, GF at home. I went out with some guys to a bar where literally everyone is dancing around, even on the tables. I was too tired to dance so I just sat and chatted with some of the guys I went there with. I wasn't bored and to anyone else I probably looked amused, no wonder as I was watching all the desperate guys dancing in cringy ways trying to get some.
Then some hot girl and her friend sat down with me, literally approached me. The hot girl just had the sexiest body. She starts chatting, I go along with just a casual conversation. Her body language clearly tells me she's very interested, I string her along for a while. Her friend just sits there looking bored, I had the hot girl's full attention. Then her friend get impatient and want to go to another bar, trying to take the hot girl with her. The hot girl asks me if I want to join, I tell her I'm staying. They both stay, the friend didn't want to go alone and she couldn't pull the hot girl away from me. I chat a little while longer with the hot girl, but her friend gets impatient and says she's going. The hot girl stays with me, more interested than ever.
I know I'm not going to do anything stupid, so I tell her she can go with her friend. She asks if I don't want her there, obviously. I tell her I don't mind and I liked talking to her. Then I tell her she's not going to get what she wants from me and show her my engagement ring. She sticks around to talk for 15 minutes after that, this one wouldn't give up easy. Then she looks at one of the other guys I went there with (who I knew was also taken). She then ASKS PERMISSION from me to go talk to him, I found that funny as hell. I just tell her straight "you've known me for what? 45 minutes and you're asking for permission?!". Can't remember what she responded, was starting to get drunk at that point. Anyways, she went over to the other guy, but he left so he didn't do anything stupid either.
She seemed selective, because she didn't have much success afterwards. I saw her dancing around for a long time, ignoring most guys.
She couldn't beat my GF, but it's always good to stay sharp at game, in case I ever need it one day. It was fun, even though I could only take it so far. If I went for it I could absolutely have smashed her that night, I sure would have if I were single.
Not sure what made her approach me, I was just minding my own business in a small corner of the bar. Don't know for sure what made me stand out, maybe my looks, maybe she saw I was having a good time, maybe both. I know why her interest grew though. I had zero dependence on outcome, since I'm not going to cheat and the only outcome I wanted was the easiest one. I wasn't even trying and from past experience that's what works best. As such, showing more interest to a woman than she shows in return will decrease her interest. I was flirting and teasing, as if stating "you're not getting me that easy", so she tries harder to win as in become more interested.
So, that was a fun little part of that night.
I have a GF but it's always fun to practice a little game when the opportunity arises, even though I won't be closing anyone. Last weekend I was on a trip for a seminar, GF at home. I went out with some guys to a bar where literally everyone is dancing around, even on the tables. I was too tired to dance so I just sat and chatted with some of the guys I went there with. I wasn't bored and to anyone else I probably looked amused, no wonder as I was watching all the desperate guys dancing in cringy ways trying to get some.
Then some hot girl and her friend sat down with me, literally approached me. The hot girl just had the sexiest body. She starts chatting, I go along with just a casual conversation. Her body language clearly tells me she's very interested, I string her along for a while. Her friend just sits there looking bored, I had the hot girl's full attention. Then her friend get impatient and want to go to another bar, trying to take the hot girl with her. The hot girl asks me if I want to join, I tell her I'm staying. They both stay, the friend didn't want to go alone and she couldn't pull the hot girl away from me. I chat a little while longer with the hot girl, but her friend gets impatient and says she's going. The hot girl stays with me, more interested than ever.
I know I'm not going to do anything stupid, so I tell her she can go with her friend. She asks if I don't want her there, obviously. I tell her I don't mind and I liked talking to her. Then I tell her she's not going to get what she wants from me and show her my engagement ring. She sticks around to talk for 15 minutes after that, this one wouldn't give up easy. Then she looks at one of the other guys I went there with (who I knew was also taken). She then ASKS PERMISSION from me to go talk to him, I found that funny as hell. I just tell her straight "you've known me for what? 45 minutes and you're asking for permission?!". Can't remember what she responded, was starting to get drunk at that point. Anyways, she went over to the other guy, but he left so he didn't do anything stupid either.
She seemed selective, because she didn't have much success afterwards. I saw her dancing around for a long time, ignoring most guys.
She couldn't beat my GF, but it's always good to stay sharp at game, in case I ever need it one day. It was fun, even though I could only take it so far. If I went for it I could absolutely have smashed her that night, I sure would have if I were single.
Not sure what made her approach me, I was just minding my own business in a small corner of the bar. Don't know for sure what made me stand out, maybe my looks, maybe she saw I was having a good time, maybe both. I know why her interest grew though. I had zero dependence on outcome, since I'm not going to cheat and the only outcome I wanted was the easiest one. I wasn't even trying and from past experience that's what works best. As such, showing more interest to a woman than she shows in return will decrease her interest. I was flirting and teasing, as if stating "you're not getting me that easy", so she tries harder to win as in become more interested.
So, that was a fun little part of that night.
