"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
FR: Quick approach, no number close
- Thread starter ElStud
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Too bad they had to leave that quickly. I think you should have thrown in a C&F comment, and gotten the number...senior year is ending, you have nothing to lose.ElStud said:
Dude, aren't you supposed to be in school? I know I am...lol
BeyondCharm
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This can be really funny and sometimes works.
Me: Oh, before you go I wanted to let you know, I can't make it to the movies this thursday, I'm having friends over for pizza, but I can do Friday. You free?
It implies that she asked you out to the movies and your busy schedule changed, even though she has never even asked you out before. It's real improv
Remember: There is no spoon.