"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: Met 2 of my "girl" friends at Starbucks.

ElStud

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So yeah, today I met two of my friends who are girls at Starbucks. What happened was like 10 minutes earlier I called one of the girls and they said they would be there soon. And right when I was about to leave, I see the two girls and they say hey and I was like "You guys are late! I was almost about to leave!" and for whatever reason one of the girls says "Oh, you can leave if you want". Blah blah... anyway then we just talk and I either high fived or handshaked both of them. Then we moved down to Starbucks and I remember one of the girls had this really complicated coffee name, which I kind of teased her about.

After the girls got their coffee(I already went to Starbucks earlier, so I didn't get anything), we sat down and they just drank their coffee and we talked. And that's tis the summary of the whole meeting, we talked. What I remember most was like the girl from Thailand talking about the food and stuff there. I also remember once that one of the girls said she wanted to go to Africa one day and I commented "Haha, that would be funny, a whole bunch of black people and then you" jokingly.

Throughout the convo I also joked about just creating a band with the girls and at one point I remember us discussing our majors and we all eventually got to the point where we discussed our futures. I remember one girl was like "Yeah, you could come see me and [ThaiGirl] at the Zoo(Cause she said she wanted to major in zoology) and then we could go and listen to your music(Cause I told them I wanted to be a rockstar when I was older).

So eventually after all that, I take them down to basically the game room with me. Before that I actually tried to convince the girls to both hold my hand when we went into the room, but it didn't work. So I showed the girls the game room since they had never been there before and yeah. Eventually I suggested that we come down their to bowl one day and they thought it was a cool idea. So one of the girls goes up there and asks how much it cost and she sees that it's $4. Eventually I tell the girls that some other day, when we all had money, we would come down there and bowl and the girls were cool with it.

Eventually, I was like "Well girls I have to go" and ones like "Oh, you're staying here?" and I was like "Yeah" I think. Eventually I just hugged them both and reminded them to bring $4 each one day so we could bowl and that pretty much closed the set.
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm Charming

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ElStud said:
So yeah, today I met two of my friends who are girls at Starbucks.
I see my friends nearly everyday, I hang out with them too, so this is nothing to make an FR about.

You've already misplaced yourself here - your aiming for a friendship and that is what you will get from them and then you'll complain here whilst your wang falls off from lack of female maintenance.
 

ElStud

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I'm Charming said:
I see my friends nearly everyday, I hang out with them too, so this is nothing to make an FR about.

You've already misplaced yourself here - your aiming for a friendship and that is what you will get from them and then you'll complain here whilst your wang falls off from lack of female maintenance.
Yes, but it IS indeed a report of an interaction with the opposite sex in field. Thus, is a field report. And yes for now, I am aiming for friendship because I like hanging out with them. I haven't even considered if I even WANT to move things on with either of them, though they're both what I'd consider hot. But yes, for right now I've just been hanging out with these girls and practicing stuff on them.
 

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Yes, but it IS indeed a report of an interaction with the opposite sex in field. Thus, is a field report.
By your standards, i've had.. 7 of these today alone, 3 of them sitdown and talk with coffee. god knows how many this month since i've been out shopping at like 15 different mega stores/malls for hours on end.

When you start arguing semantics, everybody knows your position is weak.

Is this the date you posted about earlier? If not then post that up. I'm actually interested to see how it went.
 

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LMAO are you for real TS?

I think your problem is clear - you're actually THINKING about having a coffee with a few friends as a SET, that makes being normal and yourself, almost impossible!

Lighten up and dont think about FR'ing everyday social interactions such as this or you'll never be a natural anything let alone gamer
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

ElStud

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Stud No1 said:
LMAO are you for real TS?

I think your problem is clear - you're actually THINKING about having a coffee with a few friends as a SET, that makes being normal and yourself, almost impossible!

Lighten up and dont think about FR'ing everyday social interactions such as this or you'll never be a natural anything let alone gamer
Impossible? Nope. It's not like I'm thinking "LULZ I GONNA MAKE A FIELD REPORT AFTER THIS INTERACTION" hell no. But yes, it is a field report. Infact, I'm never thinking about the FR in-game, I always make the FR's after the approach, hell, sometimes I don't even write the FR's until hours after the interaction.
 

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.... woah, i never knew having coffee with women that were my friends was such a big deal. Fck, you guys should worship me for i am godlike in that aspect.
 

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I WANT the 2 minutes of my Life back for reading that post.

Pointtttttlessssssss :nono: :nono:
 
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