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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: "HB 9 Goes Down On Me In Club"

bachelor

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First of all, this had never happened to me before in the club, and it was very exciting to have it happen...

We met each other on facebook and sent each other messages. After a few weeks of no responses, she tells me she will be going out(Saturday).

Me: We should meet up
Her: Give me a call and my friend and I will meet up with you.

I arrived at the club and let her know my location. I brought a wing with me because she was bringing her friend so I didn't want her to be a distraction. I opened up a couple practice sets and had a few beers.

My target sent me a text "We'll be there in 15 minutes." She arrived, however she brought some of her guy friends with her. This girl was even hotter in person she's a blend of Thai,Filipino, Vietnamese, and Korean. Her guy friends only spoke Japanese and sat at a table with each other. She goes with her friend to get a drink. We began to socialize and she showed me IOI. The questions ranged from

"Where are your friends from."
"How do you like Korea."

Her English was solid because she lived in Canada for 2 years. The language barrier was not an issue in this situation. Her friend who is Korean but looks Japanese came over to where we were sitting and I called my boy over to take care of her friend. He sets me up as a great wing although he will find out later the girl has a boyfriend.

A song that the girl I was sarging liked came on and she replied "Let's Dance." This is when things began to turn for the better. We danced and her hands are literally all over me. She showed me more IOI telling me how nice my body is and if I don't mind her grabbing it. I played a little CF in this situation and told her "Wow we just met and you can't keep your hands off of me." This got her going even more.

She offers to buy me a drink. We sit down again at the table and my boy is working her friend. He isolates her away and sets up the kiss test with her. He closes the make out. This helps me gain more "alone time" with her friend.

We begin to dance some more and again she is all over me. I start to kiss on her neck and her ears and she told me to keep doing it more. So, I used some push/pull tactics here. I kept things mysterious by running different variations. One time I kissed her ear then pulled back and kissed her neck. I made sure to pull back each time and this got her wanting it even more. While the kino is at it's highest point, I decide to take a bathroom break. I needed to show her look even though your into me I don't have to be surrounded around you all night.

After my bathroom break, we continue to dance. I blew in her ears again and we start making out. Again, she is all over me. We eventually land in a corner area and she begins to grab my di**. She asked me if I mind and I told her " As long as you don't try to have sex with me tonight." She started laughing and continued to grab my di**. Eventually, she whispered in my ear "Can I go down on you." No one was really looking at us so I say yeah its cool. The girl got down on her knees and began to give me head. I had no problem getting it up although I was in the club and some people probably couldn't hack it in that situation.

She goes down on me for 4-5 minutes. When she got up, she tells me how nice it was. We start dancing more and she asked if she can go down on me again. Of course, I let her. So, again she goes down on me and gives me head. I'm telling you guys this was probably the best head I have ever gotten because of the circumstances.

We continued to dance more and my friend and I decided to bring them back to the hotel. My wing was doing a good job with her friend. They were cool with going to the hotel. This is where things go from great to worse. We got back to the hotel and my wing and I went across the street to grab mixers for the alcohol. When we came back, they were gone.

Critical Mistake: Leaving the two of them alone. This gave them time to think about the situation they were in and pull out.

I got a text message saying "Sorry we had to run. We're tired and have to work in the morning."

Regardless of the situation, it was still a good night.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quiksilver

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good stuff man, did you grab a number?

Also, were you close to home when you had the hotel, or out of town?

Back when I lived in the suburbs, we used to go to the clubs which are over an hour drive from my house, so my buddy and I used to rent a cheap hotel in town so we could crash without having to worry about driving, and also bring our ladies back to. It makes the night about $30 more expensive, but most of the time it was worth it(haha a couple stories behind the 'bad' times).

great work, it sounds like she was in to you from the getgo.
 

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Good work! You're right about the mistake, but you live and learn.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bachelor

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She gave me head in the corner... I already had her number and we usually get the hotel before we go into the city... It's much better that way than riding the subway hung over lol... Many people have dissed facebook as a way to meet girls. Take this story into account!
 

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bachelor said:
She gave me head in the corner... I already had her number and we usually get the hotel before we go into the city... It's much better that way than riding the subway hung over lol... Many people have dissed facebook as a way to meet girls. Take this story into account!
What age bracket are we talking here? You and her?
 

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DAMN I gotta get into this night game lol.
 
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