"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: gimmeyofonenumba at the mall, and some tips.

gimmeyofonenumba

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Iam at the mall giving every HB some EC, but they send nothing worthwhile in return. Finally, I decide to get a smoothie at one of thoose stands in the middle, I see an hb 8.163 heres the convo:

her:"hi...are you here for a smoothie"
me:"no iam here to talk to you"(iam telling you, it was said so well, i dunno were it came from)
her:*giggle* no, because your on the wrong side of the booth, *so we go to other side*
her:"so what would you like today"
me:"well, everytime i get a smoothie its strawberry/banana. what do yo like"
her: "i like blah blah blah"
me:"see..you'd make things much more simple if you just said what you like.....but i'll have a small strawberry banna anyways"
her: "ok will you like a supplement, blah blah"
me: more fluf talk about the supplements they put in there
*meanwhile, her afc friend comes up to the stand and starts talking about some concert, she asks whos playing, i can tell she's not interested at all, and he ends it with...."I was wondering if you'd like to come?" she turns to me and hands me my change.
me: "sorry bud, she's coming with me that day"
her:*giggle*
-her friend didnt say a thing
me: "so whats your name?"
her: blah blah
me: "well blah blah are you single"
her: "she shakes her head no, and walks back to put something away, "no, but i can be a median..like in the mall"
me: what do you mean by that
her: huh?
-and i just walked away. What the heck did she mean by median? like some kinda person to fish me prospects?

and heres a bonus: This one chick was trying to sell some hand exfoliater crap, she had a really good sales set, but i was constantly C&F with her, we talked for a bit, and she gave me a hug...This chick was a lil too old at least 25, and i didnt have the intention, but it was fun talkin to her.

Things I learned:
-Bring the chick into YOUR world, i've never practiced this, and im still learning it, but i can tell its a powerfull tool. The idea came from exfoliator lady, she was showing me various products around her cart, and when she would end one product she would say"ok now close that door and follow me here" IT seems like some hippy crap, but i think the ideolgy behind it can be implemented for a PUA, it makes it feel like shes your tour guide, she had all my attention"

-chicks at the stands are usually bored and like to talk about what they do. Most PUAs are looking for the chicks with the nice tight body walkin around the mall, but everyone forgets the chicks behind the counter, because you cant see much of their fine figure.

-Be C&F with theese chicks, and be interested in their jobs, like you wanna work there yourself

-The chicks at sales stands, will sometimes introduce themselves, always say" and you are...?" and every line they give you, play it back on them with their name included. Heres an example:
exfoliator lady takes out calculator and shows me all the money she's not making by giving it too me at such a good price. I touched her on the arm and said"jessica, thats exactly my point, I want you to make some money, make the sale with someone else"
-I also think "are you single" is too wierd of a question, since chicks have probably been asked it like 5 times in their entire lives. Whats a good alternative?

-thats all for today mah babies,

iam 0-1 but my goal is 5 more approaches for the week.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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her:"hi...are you here for a smoothie"
me:"no iam here to talk to you"
That's a great line to use on a salesgirl whos not too busy, just so long as its said with confidence and a cheeky smile.

Why did you just walk away at the end with that girl tho? I don't get what she meant by a median either but i doubt it was meant to be offensive.

Oh, and what the fvck's a smoothie?!:confused: :D
 

gimmeyofonenumba

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToFatBirds
That's a great line to use on a salesgirl whos not too busy, just so long as its said with confidence and a cheeky smile.

Why did you just walk away at the end with that girl tho? I don't get what she meant by a median either but i doubt it was meant to be offensive.

Oh, and what the fvck's a smoothie?!:confused: :D
a smoothie is a drink that contains crushed ice, yogurt and any types of fruit. The reason why i walked away, is because I didnt wanna seem desperate, and at that point the conversation would only go in her favor, with her having all the power.

GGTW, ya im still a noob, and none of my friends enjoy sarging, if i had a wingman i'd be approaching like crazy, but now i gotta choose my prospects carefully
 

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i agree, asking "are u single" is a lil strange. i usually rephrase my questions in a more intricate manner.

Such as. do you hold the heart of another (with a smirk)
or " who's currently holds your attention"

@ dance clubs instead of asking "do you want to dance", which is just too formal.

i might try, "i hate to waste such a good song"
or "u really caught my attention, Dance? i have two left feet, but think ive got this pelvic thrust thing down."

I like trying to be creative in anything i say to a girl. Anything to formal and you sound like just another dude with no game.
 

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Originally posted by sexualchocolate
i agree, asking "are u single" is a lil strange. i usually rephrase my questions in a more intricate manner.

Such as. do you hold the heart of another (with a smirk)
or " who's currently holds your attention"

@ dance clubs instead of asking "do you want to dance", which is just too formal.

i might try, "i hate to waste such a good song"
or "u really caught my attention, Dance? i have two left feet, but think ive got this pelvic thrust thing down."

I like trying to be creative in anything i say to a girl. Anything to formal and you sound like just another dude with no game.
NICE
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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