"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: fat chick

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Went on a date w/ this fat girl last night. Met her at a xmas party in December. Female friend of mine asked me if i was interested in HB5, I was like "who is HB5", she was like "oh I thought you were ..... maybe it was just the booze talkin". I told her I had too much too drink but I told her to give me her email anyway.

Emailed HB5, got her phone number, set up a date to shoot pool last night. Well I get there and she was more plump than I remember. I was a little nervous about it cuz I didn't realize she was that big.

We sat and had hot chocolate for about 15 mins as she was already sitting when I got there. Then we played pool. I had her laughing and having a good time in general. I definately made a good impression.

Where my problem is though I wasn't able to initiate any kino, create any sexual tension / interest. I think it was because my initial shock in her size. Secondly she told me she couldn't shoot pool, I thought perfect, I can show her how and make it physical. Well with her size, getting behind her and shooting her how to shoot wasn't exactly the best option.

Anyone got any pointers on how I could improve. I've got no real interest in her, just lookin to practice an improve my game. Just got out of a 6 my relationship and I'm a little rusty.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don't go for the fat ones.

If you want to learn how to play the Piano, don't learn to play the guitar just so you know how to read music.

Learn to mack fat birds, and you'll be macking the fat birds, alright. ;-)
 
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