"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ace of Flames

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So I walk into the cafeteria for lunch, and this HB7 comes in behind me. I turn around to look at her, and I get some EC. Ok kool, but whatever. There's food to be had. So then I get to the line for food, and she walks by and I get more EC. Hmm. I go to get a drink, she passes by, more EC! Ok by now I started to think about how I can make a move. She was sitting in a booth, so I sat at a small table on the side so I would face her. She would look up at me as she took a sip of coke or a bite of food, so that's just more EC, and it was just getting obvious now.

I took my plate to the dishwasher thing, and I decided what I was going to do. I walked straight to her booth and said, "If you're going to keep looking at me, we should meet first" and I sat down. She smiled and started talking to me. Yay! So we did the usual basic college intro stuff, what's you major, blah blah. I got her number and then I had to leave to meet up with friends.

Easy pickings. Just need the balls to do it, and I did. I told my friends about it when I met up with them, and they were all like "Wow, I'd never be able to do that! You're good at that stuff man." Hey, I try. lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Embrace said:
Nice dude. I would of said something more ****y and funny personally. That was good though. It worked didnt it? :up:

If you're going to say something like that, at least give an example.

personally, I thought what ace said was spot on.
 

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"If you're going to keep looking at me, we should meet first"

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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