"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR: Day 2 denied! and brought back

NathanX

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I met this chick Friday when out with Zara. Number closed her.

This is a classic example of letting women know who and what you want up front. You have to balance what you tell her but not hold too much back if your looking for a women that will enter into a very sexual open relatioship with you.

For me this is about qualifying her. **** wanting to be able to pick up ALL chicks. That's not what I want to do. I want to pick up chicks im interested in ONLY! I only want chicks with sexual potential. I let them know about my world, demonstrate high value and then the woman chooses if she wants to dip a toe into the water.

Once that toe is in the water you game them until there fully submerged in the deep end and play your sexual game. After all your not hurting women doing this your being honest up front and allowing them to realize their sexuality.


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HB_Baby Spice:
What are your plans for tomorrow, do fancy meeting up at lunch time? otherwise im not free for next few weekends! Think about it and let me know. name x

NathanX:
Sure. u wanna come to Richmond and ill buy drinks.

HB_BabySpice:
ok, sounds good, u give me details, somewhere i can park the car & i'll be there!

NathanX:
ok will do. im out right now. ill txt u details

NathanX:
I have no internet access where I am. Richmond station is a good place. it has a car park round the back. should be space as its a sunday. u need more info?

http://www.masteryoursexlife.com/layreports/txting01.wmv

HB_BabySpice:
I'll park by IBM! are you qualified sex therapist? can u bring certificates with u? sorry but it has been playing on my mind!

NathanX:
ok cool. you make me laugh. www.MasterYourSexLife.com I guess im far from being boring. What time if your not too sacred.

HB_BabySpice:
12:30 ish, will text to say i have left, sorry to be a little scared! God forbid if i ever slept with u- i'll be waiting for the score cards to come out! haha -very interesting

NathanX:
ok :) see you soon.

http://www.masteryoursexlife.com/layreports/txting02.wmv

HB_BabySpice:
Sorry honey, not coming. Got scared off by googling you. Not that i am in any way a prude! wishing u the best of luck anyway ;)

http://www.masteryoursexlife.com/layreports/txting03.wmv

NathanX:
ok cool im always honest because it lets people make there own choice. im not interested in people who aren't open 2 what i do. Shame im allot of fun :)

HB_BabySpice:
Hey im feeling disappointed too! Are you looking for recruits or someone special? I know that you are honest and that is very good of u! Believe me, i do not judge at all and i find it interesting! however wouldn't want to indulge myself, sex therapy bit ok, but the adult film bit put me off, hey it made me laugh out loud at the same time! at least you are not boring, i am happy to park what u do, talk & get to know u better. If that's good with you?

NathanX:
No not looking for recruits. that's funny. im not involved in movies at the moment either. too much like real work staring in movies. sure we can chat. im cool what ever. u seem cool and i understand. if u want to get to know someone not doing your regular 9-5 life that's me.

http://www.masteryoursexlife.com/layreports/txting04.wmv

HB_BabySpice:
I'll get dressed, head up & u can buy me lunch (to make up for the drama :) then u can tell me the whole story of how you got involved! x

NathanX:
Sorry I can't now. I made other plans. But we should when your back.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This girl is suggesting you buy her lunch and take her out. It reads like a girl looking for a free meal but i'm sure you can throw some seduction game at her and turn it into desert back at your crib. Have fun and you did make a recovery there so kudos. Being cool and completely unnatached to the outcome displayed power on your part. WTG
 

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That’s not really the point. I don’t care about turning it around and free meals and that ****. Im pasted thinking about that. The point here is not to ***** around with a woman not telling her who and what you want up front.
 

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That’s not really the point. I don’t care about turning it around and free meals and that ****. Im passed thinking about that. The point here is not to ***** around with a woman not telling her who and what you want up front.
 

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I don't know if the guy above noticed that she asked you if you were a sex therpist, or that god forbid, she slept with you. Sounds to me like you're running good sex game if she's throwing it back at you, proding questions. :up:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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