"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Clarky

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First hour was pretty poor chatted with one girl a friend had invited over to the table, was starting to think i had lost my game.

Then it happend.

Everything seemed to click into place, i approached a group of about four girls picked out a target about a hb 7. About three minutes of chat passed and i decided to take her off to dance.

Clarky: I've never make out to this song u know.
HB7: Oh really?

Made out with that one for a few mins, got the digits and moved on.

Approached another set of around 6. Started chatting and kino and then a girl in the group sat closer towards me. Arabic looking, around a hb8, so i took her off and within 20 seconds I had another make out.

Her friends took a picture of us during the make out, slightly annoying as it is now on myspace haha but aleast i got some social proof.

Third girl was the icing on the cake. Must have been atleast D in bra size took her off to dance and made out for about 13 minutes.

Make outs: 3
Numbers: 5

I'm getting better :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cool man .. but what openers and routines are you using ...
Cause in clubs, i think is not a good idea to use opinion openers. So can you write down some of the openers that you are using. (and routines :D)
 
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I just go up and say hi man no need for this dj stuff for every opener.

Club game is far easier in my opinion if your in the state of mind. Almost everyone is there for the same common goal, to hook up.

Most guys in there do jack sh!t when it comes to approaching the girls, and most of those that do find a way of messing it up.

Its not so much the opener as what you do next. I get the kino going straight away, eye contact, smiles all that. Then you just take her off to dance and do you busines :) But i have a few for you that I have used succesfully...

'So why are you two sitting here all antisocial? (to a set of 2 girls)

'If you were in kissing school what mark would you get out of ten?' (as a prelude to going into the kiss)

'When's the last time that you can remember having a very very good kiss?' (same as the above)

'So how many loosers have offered to buy you a drink tonight?' (any part of the conversation)

Hope that helps :)
 
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