FR: Chicks who are interested will initiate texts first

[rascal99v]

Last night I went out with a couple of buddies of mine to watch my friends band play. We were having a good time enjoying ourselves and was watching the opening act. They really weren't that good, so I decided to go take a piss before my friends band came out.

After I finished taking my piss, I was heading back to my table when I saw a fine looking girl in my path. We both made eye contact as she smiled and shouted "Hi" over the music.

I stopped to talk to her because I wasn't going to pass up a good opportunity. She had straight blonde hair with a pretty good sized rack and nice legs to go along with the ass dressed in medium blue. She was about 5'7" to 5' 8" give or take which is a height that I like. Not too short or not too tall.

As we were talking I could hear her just fine, but I made her move in close on purpose pretending like I couldn't hear her. She had no problem doing that and was close to my ear. The conversation was going well and after her second laugh with me she touched her hand on my shoulder as she was laughing . To which I reciprocated a minute or two later with a hand of my own on her. The girl is into music which is something that I am as well. Always good to have something in common. I wanted to get back with my friends so we exchanged numbers before I departed.

After the show was over, I saw her again with her friends as she walked by us. We talked for a little bit and was introduced to her friends. Continued to chat as we were walking out and left.

So, this afternoon I looked at my phone and received this text.



"Hi Rascal, this is Allie from last night. How are ya?"



It wasn't even 15 hours later and this chick is already sending me the texts. This is a chick who has interest. So, now all I have to do is respond and play along until I get her in the sack.

Interested chicks will initiate the texts to guys they like and are attracted to.

Our anti texting friends like to tell us that "texting kills relationships" and that "texting kills interest".

Well, Rascal says that is nothing but a lame myth, because these same anti texting guys end up agreeing with me that texting does work to get laid after they all rant and rave against it. So, when they agree with me, they are spreading a lame myth because they disagree with their own false opinion.

Here is a chick who has interest and attraction towards me. She was showing it at the club and she initiated it by texting me first. My reciprocating texts back to her isn't going to "kill" any interest. This chick wants to hear back from me because she was initiating the communication first. So, no interest is going to be "killed" at all.

The only way texting can hurt you is if you abuse the tool. If you're blowing up her phone with lame ass texts or boring her ass off, then yes, that will ruin it for you. But that is the fault of the guy not knowing what he is doing, being slow in the game, being boring, not the fault of texting itself.

If you're a boring guy who can't text, chances are you are the same boring guy over the phone and in person too. If you can't talk to a chick, changing the method of communication isn't going to help you be a better communicator.

Also, if the chick has lukewarm interest or no interest at all, texting or calling won't help you get a date or get laid. It is "killed" because her attraction for you is dead. It's not texting like these guys try to claim all the time, its her attraction for you. Waiting 4 days to ask her out on a date will provide you the same results. Nothing. :yes:

It's all about attraction and interest, if there is none, nothing you can do will help you. :yes:

Just thought I would post this experience from last night and from this afternoon.

 

[sylvester the cat]

why don't we wait until you've got her in the sack before we make any rash judgments, hmm?

 

[rascal99v]

I never though we would agree, but we do!!

This is nothing new from what I've been saying before.

NO, OVERTEXTING/OVERCOMMUNICATING KILLS RELATIONSHIPS

That all depends on the communication, the attraction, and the persons
involved.

A dude hitting up a chick all the time with nothing of substance is overcommunication.

A dude and a chick texting the same amount is not overcommunication when she is into it.

When I was layed up with my leg after I hurt it snowboarding, I couldn't do anything for a couple of weeks. Couldn't go out or nothing. I met this girl like a few days before and was going to ask her out later the next week. Since I couldn't go anywhere, we ended up texting the whole time. In fact it was a lot of texting. It didn't kill anything at all and I ended up having sex with her on the first date.

She told me that she never slept with a guy before on the first date. It didn't matter if she was telling the truth because I didn't care. What she did tell me was that she felt like she already knew me because of all of our texting. She said it was like we already went out on 2 dates. From then on, I used texting as a big part of my game to speed up the process. She wasn't the only chick that told me this. That's why I know "texting doesn't kill attraction" "relationships" when the chick is highly into me.

Anytime you can erase a date or two just by taking a little time to text, then you are well ahead in the game.



A little update on this Field/Date report. Texting continued through Sunday evening. Allie called me on Sunday evening where we tallked for about 20 to 25 minutes. I have to say that this girl is very energetic and is one of the more intelligent girls I've talked with. She can carry on a good conversation and it's not related to meaningless bvllsh1t convos.

She even knew about the band Elf which was fronted by the late Ronnie James Dio also of solo fame and with Rainbow and Black Sabbath. Not too many people know that. So, I thought that was cool.

I didn't ask her out on a date when she called. I will call her later today and set up the date. I always believe a guy should ask out a girl out on his phone call.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Rascal, You Need to Talk to a Trained Professional

I stopped to talk to her because I wasn't going to pass up a good opportunity. She had straight blonde hair with a pretty good sized rack and nice legs to go along with the ass dressed in medium blue. She was about 5'7" to 5' 8" give or take which is a height that I like. Not too short or not too tall.

As we were talking I could hear her just fine, but I made her move in close on purpose pretending like I couldn't hear her. She had no problem doing that and was close to my ear. The conversation was going well and after her second laugh with me she touched her hand on my shoulder as she was laughing . To which I reciprocated a minute or two later with a hand of my own on her. The girl is into music which is something that I am as well. Always good to have something in common. I wanted to get back with my friends so we exchanged numbers before I departed.

After the show was over, I saw her again with her friends as she walked by us. We talked for a little bit and was introduced to her friends. Continued to chat as we were walking out and left.

So, this afternoon I looked at my phone and received this text.



"Hi Rascal, this is Allie from last night. How are ya?" [/B]

The above happens, then for some reason you feel the need to say this

It wasn't even 15 hours later and this chick is already sending me the texts. This is a chick who has interest. So, now all I have to do is respond and play along until I get her in the sack.

Interested chicks will initiate the texts to guys they like and are attracted to.

Our anti texting friends like to tell us that "texting kills relationships" and that "texting kills interest".

Well, Rascal says that is nothing but a lame myth, because these same anti texting guys end up agreeing with me that texting does work to get laid after they all rant and rave against it. So, when they agree with me, they are spreading a lame myth because they disagree with their own false opinion.

Here is a chick who has interest and attraction towards me. She was showing it at the club and she initiated it by texting me first. My reciprocating texts back to her isn't going to "kill" any interest. This chick wants to hear back from me because she was initiating the communication first. So, no interest is going to be "killed" at all.

The only way texting can hurt you is if you abuse the tool. If you're blowing up her phone with lame ass texts or boring her ass off, then yes, that will ruin it for you. But that is the fault of the guy not knowing what he is doing, being slow in the game, being boring, not the fault of texting itself.

If you're a boring guy who can't text, chances are you are the same boring guy over the phone and in person too. If you can't talk to a chick, changing the method of communication isn't going to help you be a better communicator.

Also, if the chick has lukewarm interest or no interest at all, texting or calling won't help you get a date or get laid. It is "killed" because her attraction for you is dead. It's not texting like these guys try to claim all the time, its her attraction for you. Waiting 4 days to ask her out on a date will provide you the same results. Nothing. :yes:

It's all about attraction and interest, if there is none, nothing you can do will help you. :yes:

Bruh, all b.s. aside, you have got to be the most insecure dude on this message board and before you say that I'm flaming you, you subconsciously did it to yourself, because why are you implying the inefficacy of Harry's, Mauser's, mine or anybody else's technique's in YOUR field report? What's the relevance? Why are you seeking the approval and validation of random strangers on a little known internet message board about how to get woman?

You've been on this "look at me, texting works," sh*t since January, (and mind you, you haven't went on a date, let alone f*cked this chick yet.) Texting women works for you, cool. Write field reports and a book on the specifics of it so we can all be text masters like you, while you line your pockets. However, when you came on here with pointless, empty, and random attacks on other members of the board, it not only makes you look like a "beta male faggot," it gives people the impression that you're jealous of Harry Wilimington.

Rex, you're f*cking up my threads and I'm not jealous of Harry Wilimington? If you're not, then why are you on this incessant, "texting doesn't kill relationships," mantra? Posting field reports that disparage the man isn't a good look dude, real talk.

 

[j.619]

Rex, you're f*cking up my threads and I'm not jealous of Harry Wilimington? If you're not, then why are you on this incessant, "texting doesn't kill relationships," mantra? Posting field reports that disparage the man isn't a good look dude, real talk.[/b]

lol murdered. Gotta spread rep before giving more to Rex

 

[VladPatton]

Last night I went out with a couple of buddies of mine to watch my friends band play. We were having a good time enjoying ourselves and was watching the opening act. They really weren't that good, so I decided to go take a piss before my friends band came out.

After I finished taking my piss, I was heading back to my table when I saw a fine looking girl in my path. We both made eye contact as she smiled and shouted "Hi" over the music.

I stopped to talk to her because I wasn't going to pass up a good opportunity. She had straight blonde hair with a pretty good sized rack and nice legs to go along with the ass dressed in medium blue. She was about 5'7" to 5' 8" give or take which is a height that I like. Not too short or not too tall.

As we were talking I could hear her just fine, but I made her move in close on purpose pretending like I couldn't hear her. She had no problem doing that and was close to my ear. The conversation was going well and after her second laugh with me she touched her hand on my shoulder as she was laughing . To which I reciprocated a minute or two later with a hand of my own on her. The girl is into music which is something that I am as well. Always good to have something in common. I wanted to get back with my friends so we exchanged numbers before I departed.

After the show was over, I saw her again with her friends as she walked by us. We talked for a little bit and was introduced to her friends. Continued to chat as we were walking out and left.

So, this afternoon I looked at my phone and received this text.



"Hi Rascal, this is Allie from last night. How are ya?"



It wasn't even 15 hours later and this chick is already sending me the texts. This is a chick who has interest. So, now all I have to do is respond and play along until I get her in the sack.

Interested chicks will initiate the texts to guys they like and are attracted to.

Our anti texting friends like to tell us that "texting kills relationships" and that "texting kills interest".

Well, Rascal says that is nothing but a lame myth, because these same anti texting guys end up agreeing with me that texting does work to get laid after they all rant and rave against it. So, when they agree with me, they are spreading a lame myth because they disagree with their own false opinion.

Here is a chick who has interest and attraction towards me. She was showing it at the club and she initiated it by texting me first. My reciprocating texts back to her isn't going to "kill" any interest. This chick wants to hear back from me because she was initiating the communication first. So, no interest is going to be "killed" at all.

The only way texting can hurt you is if you abuse the tool. If you're blowing up her phone with lame ass texts or boring her ass off, then yes, that will ruin it for you. But that is the fault of the guy not knowing what he is doing, being slow in the game, being boring, not the fault of texting itself.

If you're a boring guy who can't text, chances are you are the same boring guy over the phone and in person too. If you can't talk to a chick, changing the method of communication isn't going to help you be a better communicator.

Also, if the chick has lukewarm interest or no interest at all, texting or calling won't help you get a date or get laid. It is "killed" because her attraction for you is dead. It's not texting like these guys try to claim all the time, its her attraction for you. Waiting 4 days to ask her out on a date will provide you the same results. Nothing. :yes:

It's all about attraction and interest, if there is none, nothing you can do will help you. :yes:

Just thought I would post this experience from last night and from this afternoon.

Yes, sir...agree 105%

 

[gravityeyelids]

In my experience, girls taking the initiative in texting is a very rare occurrence. And half the time, if a girl is texting first consistantly, it either turns out that they are batsh*t crazy or if we're talking about online game or I had got the number while drunk....they turn out to be quite unattractive in person, sober.

Texting works if you know how to utelize it. Most guys have TERRIBLE text game and 9/10 times they WILL shoot themselves in the foot by fvcking something up. Not to mention that this is just a girl you met at and havent fvcked or made out with. Not saying you won't still get with her, but a better example might have been using a girl that texted you first and that you went on to bang.

 

[3agle 3yes]

There's nothing wrong with texting OR calling.

However, there is EVERYTHING wrong with texting/talking neutrally many hours with a girl you want to f*ck.

The End.

 

[rascal99v]

The above happens, then for some reason you feel the need to say this[/ b]



Bruh, all b.s. aside, you have got to be the most insecure dude on this message board and before you say that I'm flaming you, you subconsciously did it to yourself, because why are you implying the inefficacy of Harry's, Mauser's, mine or anybody else's technique's in YOUR field report? What's the relevance? Why are you seeking the approval and validation of random strangers on a little known internet message board about how to get woman?

You've been on this "look at me, texting works," sh*t since January, (and mind you, you haven't went on a date, let alone f*cked this chick yet.) Texting women works for you, cool. Write field reports and a book on the specifics of it so we can all be text masters like you, while you line your pockets. However, when you came on here with pointless, empty, and random attacks on other members of the board, it not only makes you look like a "beta male faggot," it gives people the impression that you're jealous of Harry Wilimington.

Rex, you're f*cking up my threads and I'm not jealous of Harry Wilimington? If you're not, then why are you on this incessant, "texting doesn't kill relationships," mantra? Posting field reports that disparage the man isn't a good look dude, real talk.

:crackup:

This is some funny sh1t right here :crackup:

Why is anybody posting here then? You're not making any sense here dude.

What the hell do you think this forum is for Rex? To post advice, offer different viewpoints, to post field and date reports. This forum would be pretty damn boring if nobody did that, don't you think? There wouldn't be any posts. :crackup:

I'm not sure why you have such hatred for texting and for anybody that mentions it. That's very strange.

This forum is to designed to discuss how to get better with women. I'm posting threads teaching men how to better their game by texting. My threads are showing men why texting works.

If you or anybody else doesn't like it, then tough sh1t. Go post your own threads and field reports where you don't text women. That's what this forum is for.



I'm not sure why you would feel this way when this is how it works with women.

Interested girls will want to communicate with you. Why? Because they are interested. That's why. What do these interested girls do? They will text and call you because they want to talk to you. Then you set up a date and you go on the date where nothing was "killed". This is basic stuff dude, not sure why you make a big thing out of it.

There are some instances where you won't text or talk as much. It all depends on that particular chick. Not every chick is going to be the same. Nor, do you game religious girls the same way as you would do as an easy slut. But the end result is the same, when you get them in the sack.

Like I've always said before, numbers or dates don't mean any measure of success unless you get that chick in the sack.

Women 30 and under have been texting their entire lives. This is their prime form of communication. They have texted many dudes as well as all their friends. So, when they are used to doing something, they are still going to do it. It's natural to them, and they won't get burned out by it from a guy that they like.

There will always be a few women who might not like to text and to do other things. Here's a secret for you Rex, chicks who dig you will do those things for you anyway. Like if they don't like anal or facials? They will do it for you when they are totally into you. Chicks always make exceptions for guys they really like. :yes:


Going back to when I messed up my leg snowboarding, I didn't really text all that much. I always thought it was something that chicks did with their friends. It didn't really seem like something that a guy would do. But when I was layed up, I kept texting that chick basically just to pass the time. Watching TV, talking, and texting is what I did.

I enjoyed the texts because they were fun and it was good getting to know her more before we actually went out. She was interested because she asked questions and wanted to know how my leg was doing each day. And she also made jokes and made a point to text me funny movie quotes.

When we finally went out we had a good connection already and it felt like we knew each other pretty well. There was good attraction which made the kino start early on in the date. Then after that making out and then sex. I knew she liked me from all the texting and from the date, but i didn't plan on having sex that night with her.

After she told me that she felt like she knew me well from texting, and said that it was like we went out on 2 dates already, I started doing this sh1t all the time. This girl was actually a girlfriend of mine which is why I won't forget how adding texting has really helped out my game. This is why I know texting works and why it will help you out tremendously. But, if the girl doesn't like you then you won't have any success with it, just as a phone, or asking her out face to face.



Field/Date Report Update:

Had a couple of texts with Allie today and called her after 6:00. We had about a 10 minute conversation and I asked her to hang out. She agreed, but said she was busy Thursday through Sunday because she was going out of town for the 4th. I'm going to the lake and won't be around as well. She was to able move her schedule around so we could go out tonight instead. I thought that was cool. We are going out tonight at 7.

 

[MountainSlide]

Yes interested chicks will sometimes text message you first but mostly not. Our society has been developed so that the man pursues and the woman is the pursued. People are always complaining about the loss of male identity in an over-feminized world and now we're making posts that we want the women to pursue us? Don't get me wrong, I love it when I woman pursues me, it pumps up my tires. But I am never going to start relying on women texting me if they like me.

Probably felt good to have this chick chasing you though hey? Good job on that one.

 

[goldengoose]

The above happens, then for some reason you feel the need to say this



Bruh, all b.s. aside, you have got to be the most insecure dude on this message board and before you say that I'm flaming you, you subconsciously did it to yourself, because why are you implying the inefficacy of Harry's, Mauser's, mine or anybody else's technique's in YOUR field report? What's the relevance? Why are you seeking the approval and validation of random strangers on a little known internet message board about how to get woman?

You've been on this "look at me, texting works," sh*t since January, (and mind you, you haven't went on a date, let alone f*cked this chick yet.) Texting women works for you, cool. Write field reports and a book on the specifics of it so we can all be text masters like you, while you line your pockets. However, when you came on here with pointless, empty, and random attacks on other members of the board, it not only makes you look like a "beta male faggot," it gives people the impression that you're jealous of Harry Wilimington.

Rex, you're f*cking up my threads and I'm not jealous of Harry Wilimington? If you're not, then why are you on this incessant, "texting doesn't kill relationships," mantra? Posting field reports that disparage the man isn't a good look dude, real talk.

Do you have a man crush on Harry? Always white knighting. I've never seen anything like it. You were also questioning me in that AW thread Harry wrote when people were making fun of him. You even have a running journal of your FR adventures. Who cares what threads people post.

I think this texting argument is ridiculous. Some are going to use it and other aren't. Why do you guys want to argue about it all the time?