"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR - asking out 2 gym hotties.

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I'll post this before I forget to and never do.

Yesterday:

Young hottie. I go to the gym, and there's this cute chick signing up. So I say "hi". While I'm signing up she says something to the recepcionist about not wanting to do any spinning. So I bust her about discriminating spinning.

Then, I'm doing my thing, and in between sets and whatever, I talk to her. In this case, I only talked to her when we crossed paths, although you can simply go to her, if she's not so far out, just to chat with her. So I ask her what she does normally, and she starts like thinking the answer, while like blurting out something.. so I tell her "You're unemployed and you do nothing all day!" To what she laughed, and agreed.

So then I ask her what she normally did, and then she said something about baggage and ****, to what I said "I can tell, you really have some big arms! Only people that carry so much can have those HUGE arms!" (Making her flex them and kinoing them a bit).

I did some few comments on how she was pretending not to be able to raise much weight, because we both knew she could. And then, when I was going to go, I walk up to her, and tell her "Tell you what.. let's go out on Saturday, we'll meet up here at x am, so that at that time we go" She asks if we can do it a bit later, and yeah, so, we agree on an hour later, which actually works much better than plan A.

MILF:

She went to the last gym I was at, I didn't ever recognize her, or ever speak to her, but a buddie of mine who also changed gyms, told me that she used to, so I used that as an opener about a month ago, and we talked about how ****ed up that last gym is getting etc. Oh, and she did recognize me haha! Nothing special, some IOIs, the usual :rolleyes: ahem!

Well, today I see her, she greets me, I hadn't seen her, we chat a bit, about what she does, (she asked about me, but I said I was a exotic dancer, she couldn't tell if I was making it up or not). A while later, I'm near her, so (light kino on her back when I could) we chat a bit more, she asks me when I'm coming to excercise so we meet up. I knew it was on by then ofcourse.

So then, I see she puts on her jersee (sp?) which means she will be leaving soon, so I go up to her, and before I say a thing, she asks if I had finished, I say no, and ask her if she did, she says yes, and then I accuse her of not doing abs, and then, tell her

"Tell you what.. I'm busy this Saturday, but why don't we meet up at (the same time as plan b with the other chick) the next Saturday, and see what we do?"

"Sure!, so we meet up here at x and leave immediattely, so we do excercise before that?"

":yes:"

same old, same old :yawn:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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