"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: 6 approaches at the mall today.

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ElStud

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Shut up GWA. Stop acting like a f*cking child. We wouldn't be asking you to shut up if we didn't have a reason.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For the record I don't see whats wrong with Alamar giving advice. Is he in position to give any? No. But he kinda reminds me of Mr. Confidence before he had confidence outside of name.
 

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Anybody can give ElStud advice, he's possibly the most socially retarded person on this board.
 

ElStud

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And you my friend, are a hater who has no proof of success, whatsover. You're an obvious Keyboard Jockey and looking at your threads, you've got little success. It's funny you call me socially retarded, when you made a thread complaining about how the girl was always talking in your LTR. Funny, funny kid. The mods should honestly make a new member group called "Keyboard Jockey" that bans members with the title of giving advice. There are a lot of people on this board who know what they're talking, but then again there are those guys who say sh*t and have no idea what they're talking about, the keyboard jockies.
 

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LOL at you trying to do some background research on me. Buddy, why don't you shutup for once and listen - every single thread you post is filled with people telling you you're pathetic and you use some lame argument to refute all of them instead of facing reality. I believe you were banned previously because of this kind of crap? I feel really sorry for you dude, you're going to live one of the saddest lives in recent history unless you somehow break through this mindset.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Love to chat, but listening to KBJ's like you is just not worth the time. Say something actually worth my time and I might consider reading it. You're a troll buddy and our board already has enough of them. Your sole purpose is to go into peoples threads, say stupid sh*t and then argue with that person so you can get the attention you don't get in real life.
 

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ive already been cleaning up the other approach thread way too much i'm not continuing with this one. Sorry El Stud Im leaving this up but its being closed.
 
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