"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: 2 days, 2 new lays

Mr Wright

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I'll preface this by saying that 2016 has been absolute game changer for me, I don't post these field reports on here enough. The mindset stuff on here is good but sometimes you need to see the results from other guys to understand how it all comes together. I'm having so much fun at the moment.

The first girl was an 18 year old virgin, she's hot, rich, Serbian and a total daddy's girl, in fact her dad dropped her off, she told him that I was taking her out for dinner. I met this girl in the summer, she studies in America but we went on one date and she became obsessed with me. But I hadn't seen her for 3 months. So she comes into my apartment, pretty confidently considering we've only met once, sits down, we chat about rubbish, have a drink. After about 30 minutes we're making out, move things to the bedroom, because she's a virgin I think about taking things a little slower with her but she initiated sex pretty quickly, the first few minutes hurt then we had fun. Not a whole lot of game required for this girl because she had already decided that I just did it for her. I think in the 3 months I didn't see her I was in the golden zone of not too aloof but present enough for her to form an attachment. It's only been a few days but she's already calling herself my little slüt, I'll have some fun with this one. She cried when she left me yesterday, I wont see her for another 5 months but she told me that she's not going to see any other guys but I can do what I want haha. We'll see how long that lasts...


So the morning after the previous girl I slink off to check out a new city, I've always wanted to go, wish I went in the summer but that's life. A few days before I jumped on Tinder and found this girl to show me around there because there's nothing like finding a local to show you about. I meet her in the station, I could see her a mile off because she looked as good as her photos. Short, blonde with a great behind and a pretty face. I smile to myself. Anyway, I genuinely did want to see the city so we get in a cab and go to the city centre, eat, chat and I see all the things I wanted to see for a couple of hours. At this point, we have done absolutely nothing physical but I know she finds me interesting and that I wasn't what she was expecting, in a good way. I know some guys are big on kino and touch whenever they can but I have never found that to be necessary, especially in situations like this. It was only after a few hours did I decide to make out with her, she definitely wasn't giving off any massive "fück me" signals but I didn't really care, I held her and kissed her, she doesn't object. So the suns going down and we're playing pool in this random bar and she asks what I want to do next. I invite myself back to her apartment to see her dog and she agrees. We get to her apartment, I kiss her again but she pulls away after a few seconds. We take her dog for a walk and get some food, which is fine. Once we get back to hers, her flatmates are around and kind of annoying, I sense tension between them. Then she asks if I'm staying in the city or getting a train back to my apartment. She tells me she'll call a local hotel so I can stay there...interesting. At this point I'm playing it cool, so she finds a place across town. Then she starts packing herself a bag and I just realise what's happening. She doesn't want to fück a guy she barely knows in her apartment in front of her flatmates(and her dog) so wants to take it some place else. We call a cab, get to the hotel and her demeanour totally changes, all day she had been quite quiet, fun to hang out with but not obviously sexual. But once that hotel door closed she put on some music and I gave her the fücking of a lifetime as she put it for about 2 and a half hours. Woke up the next morning, got some breakfast and I got my train back, the other girl is telling me she's outside my apartment and I'm still about 2 hours away...oh well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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