"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Found University crush on Facebook!

crackers444

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The other night I was up late and did a random search on Facebook and found former classmate that I have a crush on. I was really surprised to find her on the site, seeing how she isn't much of a net person! I had gotten her email address last year and sent her some emails. She didn't reply back. On one occasion, she was on same bus as me, I sat next to her, she wasn't very talkative and didn't open up much, it seemed I was the only one doing the talking. Do you think she was just shy(which she was in class) or she was not interested? I also found out she is on Hi5 also, however it said she was "committed" in regards to her relationship status! *shrug*. However, Hi5 is a site where people don't go on it anymore, and her pics looked old( they were from 05' and 06') and hoping her status is now different. I am patiently waiting for her to accept friend request on Facebook! I very much hopes she comes on Facebook and accepts friend request! I would love to converse with her online, it's much easier than in public(which I did with her in class a few times, without the ackwardness). I would like to hear your opinions, thanks very much!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you think she was just shy(which she was in class) or she was not interested?
you'd know better than us whether she was only shy with you or with everyone else. Shy girls don't give many IOIs.

You sound like you haven't read the Bible or even very many SoSuave articles. Have you? This forum can't substitute for your personal education and effort.
 

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yeah, sorry, I missed this part:

I had gotten her email address last year and sent her some emails. She didn't reply back.

Serialized3 said:
That girl does not like you. Period.
Correct analysis. Move on, Crackers. And read the Bible, n00b. You'll never get anywhere here if you don't put forth the effort.
 

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Crackers, so you are gonna sit on your a$$ and wait around for her to accept. She might not accept. Even if she does, she does not like you man! She didn't respond to your emails anyway, so just move on. You will feel much better. There are other girls out there.

GO DOWN TO THE BOTTOM OF THIS PAGE AND CLICK ON THE DJ BIBLE AND READ IT
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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