"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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For your own good... Use a spotter!

Mercenary

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Hey Fellas, I had a mishap today on the incline bench that could have been avoided if I had only used a spotter.

Sometimes it's rough trying to find someone to workout with, I know, but even someone working at the gym will be happen to spot you if you ask. It's a lot better for them to help you, than to have someone die at their business.

It's not even an issue of lifting more than you know you can... sometimes strange things occur when you're lifting lighter weights and you might find yourself injured or worse.
 

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Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warboss Alex

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I never train with barbells for chest, it's all done on the smith machine (inclines, declines, high inclines etc) for safety purposes.

Other chest exercises (db presses, flyes) can be done quite safely without a spotter.
 

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I train at home, so I never have a spotter and this is something that i worry about. I have had several small accidents from not being able to put the bar back (i.e Torn muscles and a crushed hand) which could of easily been big ones, especially with the incline bench press when I drop the barbell back down to it's holder the bar is resting only an inch or 2 from my throat, if I was to miss and drop it on there I would surely die cause of it, which is a scary thought. But then again you could go your whole life without taking risks and it would be boring.
 

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one word:

POWERRACK (or should that be two...!) :)

... provided you can afford it!
 
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