"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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For your entertainment, a 10 year old posting

Borknagar

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I wrote this on a old forum of mine when I was 22

Chicks suck ass! Wanna know why?


Everyoneof em I'm actualy met has ben the same in some way or form, they avoid me for no reason, I could me a super nice guy and all I get is *****es, and yes, I've tryed alot of chicks!

Ok, I've always been the one to listen to what they have to say, I've always been honest, treated them like a person, and been nice, yet they all end up being stuck up and avoid me? **** all I have to do it just try to act like a friend only and they do this ****! Are they just braindead or what? **** some *****es will be like oh I don't want a boyfriend right now, or some **** then a few days later end up ****ing some guy and going with him for a long time, ****ing lying *****s.

**** all the girl friends I've had(about 5) only went out with me cause of pressure from friends(their friends who hooked me up with them, usualy a best friends girlfriend) yes I've tryed to find chicks on my own, but that NEVER works! Even when it sounds like it will I find out they've been lying about stuff, like this one ***** said, "Oh I've only slept with 3 guys" turned out it was 9! And lost her virginity to a guy she knew for only a few hours, and I heard he was black and had aids! I'm sure as hell glad I found this out! So I told the ***** to go to hell of course, I hope shes dead now.

But most end up in love with me then 2-3 days later compleatly change their mind, ****ing dumb. And being ugly and fat doesn't help it out much!

Another one is I'll be intrested in a chick and she'll act the same, then she'll end up falling for some other guy, that pisses me off! you need to focus on one guy not go for many at once! It'll piss people off and confuse them! Falling for some other guy seems to happen alot, sometimes its even after they give that bull**** "I don't want a boyfriend right now" line.

Ok so women "claim" to want honesty, humor, commitment, friendlyness, etc, yet I never get chicks? WTF! I even proved to have those qualitys in the past, didn't help much, say I need confidence? Been there had that! never worked! I used to have no problem going up to chicks, I would go up to many, just acting like a friend. and what not, and sometimes trying to gop further, eather way, they start to avoid me alot! ****ing Stuck up!


What pisses me off is when they whine about "No good guys", well thats bull****, (lol whats ****ed up is, they'll tell me that, yet I'm a good guy, right?) Cause theres plenty of them, I've had a **** load of male friends who are just looking for a non-***** non-slut, and they can never find one! Yet all the chicks I've known have been ****ed up! Sleeping with alot of guys, or are liars! So obviously theirs more of a lack of good women.

Also, us guys have to do all the work, we have to be the ones with the job, the money, and the security, but the chick just has to sit their with none of that herself, yet want the guy to have money! **** that! It shouldn't be about the guys money, their car, or whatever, its about HIM! Sure this may not appy to all chicks, but most!

Sexual partners, This is one thing women really love to lie about, I could meet a chick, get to know her, and what not, and she'll be like "I've only been with two guys" Then next week she ends up ****ing some guy she just met, I mean what kinda chick thats only been with 2 guys would do that? I usualy do this, take what they said, and multiply buy 3, if she says "I've only been with 5" she actualy means 15, This is something alot of chicks will lie about, cause they know we won't like being with a chick whos a slut, who can blame us? I mean in general its much easier for women to get laid then guys, and they really take advatage of that. Most nearly all women have had much more sexual experience then me and most other guys, hell, I've 22 and have only got any a few times, almost everyone at this age will have me beat, especialy women.

Women want *******s cause they think they can convert them. How dumb are chicks that date these jerks? I can understand if they become an *******, then its not their falt, but some dumb *****s think they can change an *******? ****ing don't bother, I have no remorse for some dumb ***** who gets her ass kicked cause she thinks she can convert them, Go for a guy like me, less work.

Who cares more? Obviously, the guy cares more in the relationship most of the time, guys will typcaly be the ones to call wanting to do something, wile the chick just sits there, a guy will push alot of stuff aside to be with her, yet chicks will be like "Oh I don't have time today, me and some other ***** are going to the mall, sorry, maybe we can do something thursday(today being Monday)" So they even give a ****? Why even get into the relationship if your not going to do what it takes to be with the other person.

Women are ****ing impossible, we have to go out of our way to please them, we have to be the ones to watch what we say, and say one little thing wrong, and we'rte ****ed, yet they can just sit their, and us g7uys seem way more relaxed, we'll just let the chick be who she is, even though we want them to go out of their way for the relationship too.

They don't know what they want.
This is ****ing stupid, thats like asking someone if they want to be rich or not, its eather you want a relationship or you don't, which one is it? This line does nothing but pisses people off and adds confusion, but typcaly it means shes just dumb, shes actualy in the middle of choosing between you and another guy right now, or another 4-5 guys shes also been ****ing.

I'll probably add more later.

btw no offence to any females here, but this is just how I see it.

Going up to chicks,
Seriously, with my experience this proves to just be waisting my time, why can't chicks go up to us? It woul;d make it 100000 times easier, cause since alot of guys have been ****ed over, and what not, it would be great if for once chicks could come up to us, it would make us feel better knowing that we don't have to do all the work, and if they come up to us, we at least know their interested."

wow I've come a long way, anyone read anything more afc?



haha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Borknagar

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Tell me about it! back then I was fat crooked teeth and hideous, never thought it would get better...
 

Zarky

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heheh not long ago I went to the original alt.seduction.fast and looked at a couple of my first posts from 1996.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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