For those who use or have used online dating sites and actually met chicks

[TarantulaHawk]

For any of you dudes who use or have used online dating sites and actually met chicks off there. Have any of you ever met a quality chick off OLD? I'm talking any and all sites. Match. POF. Tinder. OK Cupid. E-Harmony etc.

Not dudes who haven't met anyone off them. Dudes who have. In your opinions what if any quality chicks have you ever met using online dating?

 

[jurry]

Theyre the same girls dude you act like OLD is some alien race of women. Yes there are a fair share of swamp donkeys who you wouldnt see out in the world because they are too shy, but im sure that goes for the men as well.

 

[backseatjuan]

Quality women don't hang out in online dating sites. There are all kinds of sh1t women you could meet there:

1) Just wanna fak
2) Have children and wanna fak
3) Wanna hang out and eat a dinner for your money
4) Just fat
5) Will take it in any hole for money
6) Just wanna chat and have fun, oh by the way my picture fake


If you're interested in faking online is the place, there are a few rules:

1) Use condom
2) Don't cvm inside them
3) Don't love them
4) Don't be clingy
5) Don't call them too often
6) Be very cheap if you go out, and sexual


It's best to sex them and keep them around, maybe you meet someone through them.

 

[jurry]

Yes a hot sociable girl obviously doesnt need OLD, same as a guy.

A girl who works all the time doesnt go out much wont meet many guys, so she'll go on there.

To say there arent hot normal girls on OLD tells me you've never even been on it. But whatever works for you, more for me

 

[jurry]

Women who are hungry for côck/do the same thing you do are not quality in your eyes? So which women does that leave?

They all want the dîck bro, and theyve all had another dîck before yours.. Live with it. Generally when people on here get worked up over "sluts", its code for "girls that end up with another guy that im butthurt about". Otherwise, why would it bother you?

But you're young and still get off on trying to put down strangers on the internet, so i wont hold it against you.

 

[Starwolf]

Well you get a lot of these Online

BPD, Narcissist, Clingers, Low inteligence, desperate, slvtty

and if you do find one that is acceptable..she still has a light version of one of the above.

but then again.. is it that differen from Day/Night Game?

 

[KingBeef]

Quality women don't hang out in online dating sites. There are all kinds of sh1t women you could meet there:

1) Just wanna fak
2) Have children and wanna fak
3) Wanna hang out and eat a dinner for your money
4) Just fat
5) Will take it in any hole for money
6) Just wanna chat and have fun, oh by the way my picture fake


If you're interested in faking online is the place, there are a few rules:

1) Use condom
2) Don't cvm inside them
3) Don't love them
4) Don't be clingy
5) Don't call them too often
6) Be very cheap if you go out, and sexual


It's best to sex them and keep them around, maybe you meet someone through them.

^^^ THIS... :crackup:

It's been said quite often here..."Online dating is the equivalent to fast food. Once in a while is fine but can be detrimental to your game if used frequently...

 

[Partizan]

Here's my experience.

OLD on the free sites (OKcupid, POF) is a lost cause if you're looking to find a quality woman.

The pay sites (such as Match) are better, but you do have to be willing to "compromise" on physical attractiveness. I've probably met like one girl that way who I would say is my equal on the attractiveness scale.

 

[jurry]

I'm not trying to put anyone down. If my words hurt you feelings then you may need to reevaluate your self esteem.

This is a site for men. We talk candidly.

Women and men are not the same. This is red pill 101. Women who do the same things I do are definitely not quality in my eyes - I've been in foursomes for Christ's sake. Some parts of my life have been pure debauchery. I would 100% disregard a woman for an LTR who had even a quarter of the partner count I'm at. That's a double standard I'm fine with. I know based on previous posts where you stand on the whole "slvt" debate so no need to go down that road.

I have no problem with slvts. But I will not commit to one. Now why does this bother you so much?

And FWIW my current gf hasn't had a another d!ck before mine so perhaps it is a combination of my standards vs your own and our differing life experiences.

No need to settle for women with high partner counts brother. There are decent ones out there.

Its exactly about putting other people down and raising your own self image, thats why you keep talking about yourself and trying to make it personal when you know nothing about me.

"My girlfriend is a virgin", "i bang sluts but if another guy commits to them they have no standards".

It doesnt bother me at all, you're the one who has a problem with them. You're the one trying to create this hierarchy where if someone else has different tastes and is happy with a different type of girl you are better than them. Otherwise you wouldnt bring it up at all or care.

In fact, in almost every discussion across the board, my position is one of aloofness and saying "who cares guys, its not a big deal". People want to keep harping on about sexual partner count and boundaries and feminist takeovers, im saying relax bros life aint that hard. If shes not your type, not acting in a way you like, move on. Its that simple, you dont need all this analysis.

 

[TarantulaHawk]

Match.com has been my go-to site for the past 10+ years. Have met an estimated 200 or so off that site and have encountered all kinds: crazy ones...normal ones...hot ones...several ONS's too. Best caliber of women hands down. Which is all I really care about.

Have scored 1 lay from POF and have never been impressed by the women on there.

Okc seems to be the best site for scoring quick lays.

Note: in my mind 99% of women...ALL women...have already created an online profile or have at least thought about it.

+1 rep. Agree Match is the highest "quality" for OLD as you can get. Though I have seen a lot of the same chicks with profiles on POF and Ok Cupid. Match is possibly (if anyone takes OLD seriously lol) where they "could" find a decent chick.

Tried to rep, +1.

Anyway, I did meet 1 somewhat decent girl from OLD but it didn't work out due to logistics...also a 5/10(I know I know) and I was only with her for a few months anyway. The few other girls I met online and know use OLD are basically toxic waste but I know 4-5 more somewhat decent girls that use it(but would not date them mainly for looks reasons). I would say if you are a 7/10 or higher you might be to find quality at around the 5 or lower level...the question is, why would a 7 date a 5? lol.

Agreed 110% +1 rep.

No. They really aren't.

All the quality girls I know would not touch OLD with a 6 foot pole.

They're attractive and social enough to where they just don't need to resort to it.

If they are attractive and social - then they're on it for c0ck. And well I don't regard slvts as quality. Maybe you have a different opinion.

I had some experience of Tinder before my gf and I got back together and the hot girls are just as slvtty on there.

Of the girls I met there I smashed every single one on the first date. Every one.

I even went in raw on one.

And a humble man thinks to himself, "well, if I did it, then why not another guy?".

OP, OLD girls are for fvcking and chvcking. Wife them at your peril.

^^^This I believe 100%. +1 rep. Any chick I've personally known who's used online "dating" was literally the absolute WORST type of female to ever bother with. (And out of the 7 I know 6 are hot) One thing in common? Either complete nutcases and or had MANY diks inside them. And it's not that I'd dated them but friends had and they were KNOWN by dudes and women as horrible people.

Usually you'll get responses from dudes who aren't getting anything with a justification answer: "Oh they're all fat whales and disgusting."

A few other dudes I know personally use OLD for hit and quits. And they've confirmed what I already knew and suspected. (as I figured it couldn't have possibly be the ones I did meet and date etc. were coincidentally loaded with issues off Match and POF) Same dudes have said EVERY ONE was either a basket case, filthy in all aspects, some used old pictures, drugs, alcoholics, family issues or a combination of everything I mentioned.

I was just curious to see what other dudes have actually experienced with OLD for any site in regards to actually meeting the chicks not just emailing online.

 

[skinnyguy]

The advantage to online dating is you know the girl is at least looking for something.

For a while I tried daygame but most of the time I got the IHABF line, not to mention I felt pathetic trying to pick up random women.

I can see advantages to OLD. The problem is screening the ones who just want attention. Also if you're not super hot, you will get a very low response rate.