"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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For those who think "looks don't matter" in online game

djjizzyjeff

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For those who think looks don't matter in online game. Here are two examples of the same type of experiment I'd done with numerous women on Plenty of Fish in regards to exposing them for what they are really looking for on online dating = getting fvcked by the hottest dude they can land.

Read the threads. Guys on PUAHate did the same type of experiment and I've seen it other times so if you have a profile on POF do not care nor pay attention to anything chicks online tell you. It's all complete BS. Play the game and take it all with a grain of salt with no feelings or bitterness.

Links below:

http://puahate.com/showthread.php?t=42274

http://puahate.com/showthread.php?t=54774
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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looks matter a lot in dating game, however online dating the looks get cranked up to delusional grade. a truly good looking guy should have no problem getting laid at least once per week (conservative estimate) with minimal effort online
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
No one says that lol. What else could possibly matter there?
According to the "help" on POF forums they all seem to have the same conclusion of having a great profile and sending thoughful messages. Yet still don't get anything.

Or most seem to think chicks profiles are all fake and are there simply for attention seeking purposes.

I've seen far to many realistic looking dudes who look like male models pictures used to test the looks theory online and as long as there are a few pictures used of a person who isn't model posing the chicks cannot stop replying or initiating conversation.

Average guy who sends ANYTHING = creeper, desperate, or choose any negative connotation.

Hot model looking dude could literally just send "hi" or go straight up sexual and the chicks LOVE it.

The key is for all men to realize online chicks and a lot of real life chicks are slags who BS constantly on "good qualities" when they REALLY want and will fvk the hottest rugged looking "bad boy" they can.

It's amusing how they have so many dudes brainwashed though. Sad but true.

The best you can do is to be the best you can be and keep your own integrity and character in tact and never rely on ANY chick to "complete" you or you will be sorely in for a rude awakening. Period.


Especially online. Anything and everything you say depends completely on how good you look.

Chicks who use online dating are ONLY looking to get banged out by the best they can land at the time and then looking for better EVEN IF they are the type you wouldn't give a second look to in real life.
 

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betheman said:
looks matter a lot in dating game, however online dating the looks get cranked up to delusional grade. a truly good looking guy should have no problem getting laid at least once per week (conservative estimate) with minimal effort online
This.

Hell, online dating has helped me get laid and Im no David Beckham or young Denzel. Having some good pictures of yourself in your best outfits reeallllly helps. If you can get a pick up of you in slacks, a button down, and a tie youll do good. Or if thats not your look, just something which shoes off good fashion sense and grooming.

Some people, like myself, wont look awesome without the right grooming and clothing. Im in good shape and am an average looking dude, but Im not someone who can roll out of bed and pull chicks. So guys and girls were blessed with being that good looking.

In which case, clothing and grooming are key.
 
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