"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For those that have made it..

dice

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How do you know you've become a Don Juan? That moment when you realize you have moved from RAFC to Don Juan.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brian20o2

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It will take along time to become a DJ Im alot closer than I was when I found this site and have made HUGE improvments. But I still have a LOOOOOOONNNNNNNGGGGGG way to go before I am where I want to be. Maybe in 5 years Ill look back and say...'Hmmm Im still not a complete DJ' but hey, sucess is a journey, not a destination.
 

Jariel

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When you have everything you set out to get.

Maybe some people would argue against me being a DJ because I slate a lot of the "fundamentals" taught here, but I'm confident, I'm attractive, I have a hot and loyal girlfriend who worships me, a fantastic sex life, plenty of female admirers, plenty of social groups and close friends, and I've even got ex-girlfriends chasing me for a second chance.

But what matters most is that I am content with myself and the people in my life. I no longer feel on edge and desperate for attention.

There is literally nothing more I wish to gain from this board or the seduction community. I need to sort out my career ambitions and finances, but this is a separate journey as far as I'm concerned.
 
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