LuisGarcia10
Senior Don Juan
It's a byatch isn't it?
You see the girl of your dreams, you sip your beer, you smoke your ciggarette, but come the end of the night you're no better off than when you started.
You're not alone, it's common practice.
You joined this forum to detract from common practice, to be that extra bit special that gets you the digits and sets you apart from the rest.
Let's take tonight as an example, I'm very much AFC in transition, I thought a great way of talking to a girl would be to ask for a lighter, she didn't have one so I went back to my mate and never started a conversation.
About 10 minutes later to blokes came over and sat next to her and her 2 mates, I just thought, I can either go home now with no girl or no number or I can try and at the very worst go home with no girl and no number which is exactly what I started with.
I persuaded my mate to go over and talk to them.
What happened?
I talked to the girl I was paticually interested in, used a few DJ tactics and got her digits, the two blokes there before me were typical AFC's and never asked for a number and ended up with nothing.
I started talking and got eye contact, smiles, nodding of the heads etc and just thought, what the hell, let's go for the digits, and for the second time in a row I got them.
After already approaching this girl once it was hard to do so for a second time but I just thought I'd use what I'd learnt on here and see what happened.
I walked up to her and said,
"You guys look like you're having fun, me and my mate are gonna join the party"
I got digits from that, yet another DJ activity completed.
So just remember, next time you're contemplating whether to approach or not, just remember that the worst you'll end up with is exactly what you started with. The damaged ego isn't a problem because a DJ knows he's the prize and the problem is with the girl, she's the one missing out, not you.
So please, next time when you're undecided whether to approach or not, just do it. The initial line is irrelvant, just intrduce yourself and let it flow from there.
You see the girl of your dreams, you sip your beer, you smoke your ciggarette, but come the end of the night you're no better off than when you started.
You're not alone, it's common practice.
You joined this forum to detract from common practice, to be that extra bit special that gets you the digits and sets you apart from the rest.
Let's take tonight as an example, I'm very much AFC in transition, I thought a great way of talking to a girl would be to ask for a lighter, she didn't have one so I went back to my mate and never started a conversation.
About 10 minutes later to blokes came over and sat next to her and her 2 mates, I just thought, I can either go home now with no girl or no number or I can try and at the very worst go home with no girl and no number which is exactly what I started with.
I persuaded my mate to go over and talk to them.
What happened?
I talked to the girl I was paticually interested in, used a few DJ tactics and got her digits, the two blokes there before me were typical AFC's and never asked for a number and ended up with nothing.
I started talking and got eye contact, smiles, nodding of the heads etc and just thought, what the hell, let's go for the digits, and for the second time in a row I got them.
After already approaching this girl once it was hard to do so for a second time but I just thought I'd use what I'd learnt on here and see what happened.
I walked up to her and said,
"You guys look like you're having fun, me and my mate are gonna join the party"
I got digits from that, yet another DJ activity completed.
So just remember, next time you're contemplating whether to approach or not, just remember that the worst you'll end up with is exactly what you started with. The damaged ego isn't a problem because a DJ knows he's the prize and the problem is with the girl, she's the one missing out, not you.
So please, next time when you're undecided whether to approach or not, just do it. The initial line is irrelvant, just intrduce yourself and let it flow from there.