For rich guys: play modest.

[PopProducer]

I took this from a book called "GIRLS CHASING"by Cathy Hopkins

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* If you have a fancy car, don't mention it. Let her only wknow this after some time, or let someone tell her this. When you're rich, modesty is a plus.

[OK, maybe no one here has a fancy car, but in case you have it this seems more intelligent than flauting about it]

* If you have a big house tell her that you have a place over there... At the right moment she'll find out you have a mansion.

* If you went to a good university don't mention it... She'll find about Hardvard herself.

* So, after this, tell her that you are nothing special in sex... After all these surprises she'll want to try!

The author says: think about those movies where princes seduce poor girls and they only find out who he is later... Women grow up watching thse movies...

 

[PopProducer]

Re: Re: For rich guys: play modest.

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
I definitely agree accept on this one. This is a big no-no.

You never tell a girl you are nothing special in sex.

Again, what you say doesn't count, it's what you do.

If she likes sex with you, no matter what you say, she'll like you.

If you tell her you're great in bed... She'll be expecting a high performance... Why putting all this pressure in yourself?

Again, the thing is to to SAY it but to SHOW it... If you date girls regularly, you must have something. If these girls call you on the phone while you're with her, you must have something...

Women are not stupid and know that guys exaggerate about their sexual issues and performances... Again, SHOW, don't TELL.

She'll only think you're an insecure guy if you talk all the time about how good you are in bed...

 

[PopProducer]

Thinking again, the best thing you can say when the question of how good you are in bed arises is:


"I have no idea. What if I show you what do I do and you tell me?"

 

[PopProducer]

Re: Re: Re: Re: For rich guys: play modest.

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Hot Babe: Are you good in bed?

Don Juan: There's only one way to find out. (Deliver with a James Bond tone and smirk)

End of story.

Hey you took the words out of my lips... I posted mine a few seconds ago...

 

[PopProducer]

Modesty is a plus. Of course, if you have concrete things to show... If you already know you have a BMW and a mansion... Why telling her that at the first conversation? She'll find out anyway...

Same with other things which are not material... Like being great in bed, or other things... Let her find out...

An expert poker player never shows he's got a great hand... he only pretends to have good cards if he hasn't got them!

(maybe it's not poker and confused the game... anyway you got the idea)

 

[PopProducer]

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Yes very good. Be confident, not ****y.

People HATE pretentious guys who brag about themselves. It's a great idea not to tell too much about your high points...

BTW, why are you talking anyway? Good DJ's don't talk, they listen to the girl and find out interesting data about her...

 

[PopProducer]

Originally posted by SuperGigaloDJ
Yes very good. Ask open ended questions.

Just curious, are you a bot that quotes things and adds "yes very good"?

just kidding

 

[Julian]

I am very modest about my ride. I mean its nothing super pimp but it is a red bimmer so it looks pimp (even tho its wrecked an getting fixed now -_-). But for a young guy like me, its very nice.

I never tell a girl about my vehicle...but its very empowering and satisfying to see her face light up the first time she sees the whip.

Its nice to have luxury and power. I love my ride and its sad to see her beatdown. Pray that truth prevails and liability is placed on the skeezer that split my dome while cruising the streets,

 

[comote]

I am not rich yet but I am all about modesty and humility. My thinking is that anything truly impressive about myself will be 100 times more impressive if when someone finds out after they already think they know you.
How do I know when to tell someone? When they ask the right questions it will come out. Unless someone forces the right questions I dodge the issue.