"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I know this happens because I have seen so many people go through it. Nowdays I don't really care much about hawtees. If some hawtee chic said "you can bang me or take a free trip to Australia", I'd just go to Australia and bang their hawtees (LOL). There is so much to life, and when you are busy enjoying life and being truly happy, then the hawtees will want you badly.

Next time you think how bad life is because you don't bang hawtees yet, take up one of the following:

1. take up scuba diving (the unwater world is amazing)
2. Go skydiving.
3. Go to Darwin's sites of evolutionary discovery.
4. Tour Europe (no, not De Wallen :).
5. Go see some mountains.
6. Do Mardi Gras or Carnival.
7. For daily life get a meditation tape and join a gym.
8. If you do all that and you still can't think about anything but hawtees, move to Thailand for a while!

The bottom line is do something, but don't walk around this desperate, needy man who is controlled by wet dreams of a scoring with a hawtee...something the guys the hawtees want consider almost a burden at time...geez, Im tired and she wants to fvck AGAIN! GRRRR!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If some hawtee chic said "you can bang me or take a free trip to Australia", I'd just go to Australia and bang their hawtees (LOL).

Yeah, but you would have to go a long ways just to bang hawtees. Why not just bang the one right in front of you?
 
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The world is like a book, if you only stay in one place and do the same things, then it's like reading only one chapter.
 
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good advice. but it must be added that the "doing something else" MUST BE SOCIAL and it MUST NOT ISOLATE YOU in your home - like getting a net flix subscription, video games or reading.

you DO need to get your mind off of the thing that is eluding you but your "avoidance" should still keep bouncing you off opportunities, not isolating you.

many "geeks" do indeed find "something else" to get their minds off of it but while the activity may kill time and alter focus, it CANNOT help with the problem itself.

out and out avoidance is not the idea.

delta
 
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