foot-in-door technique

[big_jeffry]

guys, this is a tip that i stumbled by recently. Start out small, then keep increasing your demands. You know how Hilter brainwashed all those jews back in wwII? Asked his german solidiers to put the Jews through small tasks, and then kept building up the tasks(making them bigger and bigger) and they agreed, when finally the tasks built up so high they were brainwashed and they could be put into gas chambers. Anways, with women, the idea is similar. You have to start out small, first introduce yourself, then get her number, ask her do to small favours, then ask her out for coffee, then go on a date... see it all builds up and if done correctly, the psychology of her brain will keep telling her to do these tasks until she eventually goes out with you. This is why there is a greater chance a woman will accept a first date if you go to get coffee together or something of that sort, something small to start out. It will greatly increase your chances!

 

[kel]

Your idea is correct but you're an idiot beyond compare.

Hitler didn't convince the jews to do anything. he convinced the Germans to FORCE the jews to do things. Then he killed them.

And by the way, Socrates would be proud. Your logic of using an example of one of the most brutal dictators the world has ever seen is a great method of persuasion....

 

[becker]

What about just talking to them on the phone and building the rapport that way, then the first time you meet, you do the action date (mini golf, etc)? That's what I'm doing right now.

 

[dockta]

You are relating persuasion to Hitler.... are you serious... whats next... C&F to Saddam.

The mind Boggles

 

[Unforsaken]

Originally posted by dockta
You are relating persuasion to Hitler.... are you serious... whats next... C&F to Saddam.

The mind Boggles

Hell, yeah!! Saddam was a pimp. Had 9 girlfriend all over Iraqi...lol

 

[chicksrock]

Great tip bigjef..
don't know if everyone appreciates it though... but they should !!

 

[CapiCrimini]

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[JSH]

I think youv read about this somewhere but got the wrong idea. Hitler was famous for, in his speeches, saying minor things that people would agree with, then slightly more radical things which they then also agreed with and then totally false things which they agreed with. You start off gently and then build up.

Its like a technique i have seen here, where you build up by getting the girl to say yes to everything.

 

[iMat]

Hitler didn't brainwash Jews. They were just unaware. And plus, the SS had guns. Jewish workers did not.

--iMat

 

[DJ_Dork]

a$$h0s stop trying to change the topic. jeff has some good points here.

when you ask someone to do a "small favor" such as .. "here's $8 get me a beer and something to drink at that bar" and then progressing to "can you pick up the movie tickets for tomorrow's opening and do the driving cause I had a rough day" - get girls to do favors for you, in fact they don't mind it and find it interesting change that a guy has a backbone to ask her to do things instead of a guy worshippnig the ground she walks.

on a 3rd date i went out with a girl on, i pretended that i needed to go to the bathroom and if i could use her bathroom in her apt. girls at this moment will think "he might rape me or he might try to have sex with me" - so you want to downplay that by using the bathroom and then get out. this does several things: 1. you get to see how she lives her life 2. she knows you didn't have any evil intentions 3. if you ever want to get back into her place this is a "foot in the door"

 

[spacecowboy]

This tip works a second way that hasn't been mentioned. By getting someone to do small favors for you, psychologically they start to work backwards. Meaning, if you do favors for someone, usually its because you like them a lot. So on a subconscious level, you will start to believe that you like them because you are doing things for them. I would say that you would be wise to not place too many demands too quickly though. If you do that then any woman with half a brain and some self esteem is going to think you are ass. If you ask for two small favors, then dole out one small favor of your own, she will be much more willing to continue doing the favors for you, thereby allowing you to continue using this tactic to your benefit. Constantly asking for things without giving anything in return will eventually backfire.

 

[Aresx]

yes yes... it's all in Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion

 

[wolfie]

When do you gas the HBs then?

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

Originally posted by wolfie
When do you gas the HBs then?

shut up you fcukin ******