Flirty or Interest

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Alright, I'm a sophomore and the potential girl is a freshman.

First off, the history:
We known each other for about 2 years, only because her friend (who's also my friend) liked me... while I thought THIS girl was hot. (She's WAS LESS than an aquaintence)

This year, when she became a freshman, her locker was next to mine, and on the first day of school (about a few weeks after finding this site) I talked to her for a short while.

Haven't talked to her since first months of school, but just being a aquaintences -- and saying "hi". I also found out from what I asked her... her response was "I'm a very touchy kinda person, I can't live without physical contact" <== nothing "dirty"

Umm about a month ago I remember seeing her and her boyfriend (I'm guessing they are over with... I'll have to clarify that before anything happens with me and her)... were doing a short French-kiss... (I'm not a jealous person... no reason to, she was only an aquaintence, right?) <== that pretty much made me think that making a move on her would be easier than the previous Senior cheerleader girl I was *talking* to.

NOW:
Lately I've been leaving small comments on her blog (lame, huh?), but it gets the job done.


I leave comments all the time but I've never had a picture of myself <when you comment, it shows your comment and your picture of yourself>. After I changed the picture to really good looking face-shot of myself (I think), she comments back saying how she loves my picture.

After she comments *the above* comment on my blog, I said "Blah blah, thx for the comment of my picture, But I don't like your picture as much as the one from the beginning of the year, but I still want to marry you."... she comments back saying "I do =)" <as in: "I do" when people get married">... I comment back "Oh, so you want to marry me too?"... her "blah blah yeah."

At school the next day, she walks by me and slaps me on the leg.

Umm, this weekend, She (with her cousin... a girl) sees me at Hollister when I'm looking at a jacket, and comes up to me and slaps my a.s.s once, and starts talking to me. I should have slapped myself for not knowing what to say, but I was just nodding, and doing small smirks and that kinda BULLS.H.I.T. saying "Yeah " shrugging my shoulder pretending to agree to everything she says <= not in a jerkish way though.

Before she leaves with her cousin, she grabs my a.s.s again, and says I want that <wedding>ring next time I see you.

I never got her ###.

Nice story, huh?

Not to mention 2 week Winter break just started on Saturday, when I saw her. (My last girlfriend... me and her started talking over Spring break.. and started dating when school started back up... I can't stand that b.i.t.c.h.e.s though. Also, gimme advice how to get her off me... she likes me still.... and her, her friends, and whoever shes associated with... I can't stand.)

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So, I know what I did wrong, don't tell me what I should have said if youre trying to be lame/perverted/funny. I you have a serious thing I could have said, tell me?

Just tell me what I coulda done... perhaps? I have no idea what my motive was for writing this, I totally forgot after I started typing.

Sorry if I'm "over-analyzing"... don't be too harsh, harshness NEVER helps people on this forum... It makes them worse.

K, constructive-critizism -- Tell me what kind of things I need to work on, what I need to do, to not screw up again with ANOTHER GIRL. I haven't had a girl I truely liked in a while. <== lame

K, thx... SMOOTCHIES

Any good ways to get the girls number when you're speechless like that?

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

Bump... because I'm going to bed... and no one is replying. goodnight. I hope there's some when I wake up. =))

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

cmon people. bump.

 

[JayUK]

thats kinda a weirrrd post man, but we all got our different ways!
If she grabs ure ass then u gta counter wit somethin, like u be like 'whoa watch wer ure hands goin gurl, u aint that hot' or somethin like that, then even if u aint leavin, jus leave an walk past her, an grab her ass an whisper somethin in her ear like '2 can play that game baby' or 'theres more wher that came from' somethin crazy cheesy like that! jus anythin but cus she did that to u, then left an grabbed ure ass, uve bin left for dead man, she was IN CONTROL of the situation!
Step up man, an just go for it!
Be a man man!

 

[dannowillbookem]

the reason no one replies is because this is another "ummm im really nervous and i'll tell you every piece of conversation me and this girl have ever had and you guys can do the work of figuring out if she wants my ****" thread.

you arent gonna get her until you man up and take things into your own hands. i didnt read ur entire post and i dont want to. its boring. and i have to go do more important things like light my testicles on fire.

 

[loner4shou]

nice post man! just be in control and everything will be fine and about that a$$ grabing part, u should grab her a$$ back 2 show her u the man. just keep it up and use some c+f in it 2.