"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Flat abs in morning, bulging stomach at night...

floydtheater07

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Alright, so I've been noticing that when I wake up in the morning, my stomach is fairly flat and my abs have decent definition. I need to work them more, but the potential is clearly there. However, by the end of the day at night, my stomach seems to naturally want to bulge out. Anyone have this problem? Know what I can do about it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Drum&Bass

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Thats normal, Guys in magazine shoots suck it in, bodybuilders on stage suck it in.

that bulge doesn't mean your fat, its just gravity and your organs hanging out from being in upright position all day, it would be cool if our abdominal walls could look like they stayed flex and tightened 24/7 but all muscles go soft after a few days.
 

BMX

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That would explain last night for me...cuz this morning I weighed the same haha!
 
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Very good and informative exchange .. Thank you!
 

[S]alvatore

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It bulges out as the day goes on because you consume food and water, which are stored in your organs and subcutaneously (under the skin). Avoid foods high in sodium, and if you are that concerned, eat smaller meals.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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