"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Flaking: OLD vs Day/Night Game

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No opinion, I only do old. I do get a few flakes but not many.
 

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Does flaking happen more with girls you meet from OLD or Day/Night Game?

I'm thinking you get more flakes from OLD. I can't even count on both hands the amount of flakes I've gotten from OLD. But, I haven't been flaked on close to as many times with girls I've met in real life.
Flaking has nothing to do with old or day/night game. If she has options, she will likely flake. If she doesn't have options, she will likely show. The only thing you can do is put your best foot forward and don't be outcome dependant. o_O
 
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