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Flakey women

aron77

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How do you handle flakey women, move on or if they make a move give it another shot?

I've got one girl I've been talking to that I'm moving on from cuz she is so flakey, says yes everytime I ask her out but ends up leaving me hanging on calls and texts. Here is an example of this one. We were supposed to go out and I called the day before to confirm the time with no answer so I sent a text and she didn't respond for 5 hours and when she does respond she says she hurt her neck and back so she doesn't know about the ice skating we were supposed to do. I didn't respond so an hour later she says we can still go to dinner. I never responded and I'm just moving on unless she really comes after me cuz she's been flakely like that before and I'm probably at best a #2. She texted me the other day and we had a short exchange but I didn't bite.

I had this other girl a while back from work, who was smoking hot, who flaked on me but then she started calling me. We were supposed to go out and I saw her at work that day but she says she might not go. I should have just ended it there but I said oh don't bail on me, probably lost a bunch of points there, but to let me know for sure. Never heard anything back til hours after we were supposed to meet with her talking about rescheduling. Anyways it was awkward seeing her at work but all I said was that I was going to cancel the amber alert. I remained cordial to her but pretty much just left her alone. Then after a short while she starts talking my ear off at work and then called me a couple of times. I was surprised that she would spend so much time talking to me even as she was trying to leave work and then really surprised when she started calling me. That was a while back and I never tried taking her out again and she eventually quit talking to me so much. I always wonder if after she started calling me if I should have tried one more time but I didn't like her flaking before and she never brought up rescheduling so I didn't.

I'm thinking both of these girls are just attention *****s and not interested enough but damn they are both sexy. The first one I'm pretty much just moving on from but the second one I always have a little regret that I didn't try again. How would you handles these flakes?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aron77 said:
How do you handle flakey women, move on or if they make a move give it another shot?

I've got one girl I've been talking to that I'm moving on from cuz she is so flakey, says yes everytime I ask her out but ends up leaving me hanging on calls and texts. Here is an example of this one. We were supposed to go out and I called the day before to confirm the time with no answer so I sent a text and she didn't respond for 5 hours and when she does respond she says she hurt her neck and back so she doesn't know about the ice skating we were supposed to do. I didn't respond so an hour later she says we can still go to dinner. I never responded and I'm just moving on unless she really comes after me cuz she's been flakely like that before and I'm probably at best a #2. She texted me the other day and we had a short exchange but I didn't bite.

I had this other girl a while back from work, who was smoking hot, who flaked on me but then she started calling me. We were supposed to go out and I saw her at work that day but she says she might not go. I should have just ended it there but I said oh don't bail on me, probably lost a bunch of points there, but to let me know for sure. Never heard anything back til hours after we were supposed to meet with her talking about rescheduling. Anyways it was awkward seeing her at work but all I said was that I was going to cancel the amber alert. I remained cordial to her but pretty much just left her alone. Then after a short while she starts talking my ear off at work and then called me a couple of times. I was surprised that she would spend so much time talking to me even as she was trying to leave work and then really surprised when she started calling me. That was a while back and I never tried taking her out again and she eventually quit talking to me so much. I always wonder if after she started calling me if I should have tried one more time but I didn't like her flaking before and she never brought up rescheduling so I didn't.

I'm thinking both of these girls are just attention *****s and not interested enough but damn they are both sexy. The first one I'm pretty much just moving on from but the second one I always have a little regret that I didn't try again. How would you handles these flakes?
#1 = Next
#2 = AW, dont dwell on the past ones. Once you've made the decision to NEXT, then thats it - you weren't happy with how things were going and walked away like a man.

Hindsight and overanalysis will get you down. Keep moving forward.:up:
 

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Get these girls off their pedestals. They're attention wh0res. Your princess is in another castle. Your gut is telling you this. Listen to it. Move the hell on. That's my ruling.

Case closed. Exit stage left.
 
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