Flakes, excuses and other things you don't understand

[Bingo-Player]

ok I've been quite for a while because I've been busy working out something thats going to make me financially stable

but between this forum and a lot of my amateur friends i keep hearing the same questions

stuff like

" why didn't she say goodnight to me"

" why does she seem to "fall asleep" one me every time we text late at night"

" why is she taking XXXX amount of time to reply to me"

"why does she arrange and agree to plans just to cancel them last min"

"why do i feel like I'm not the only guy in her life"

"why do i have to keep initiating contact"

EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THESE SCENARIOS BOILS DOWN TO 3 KEY FACTS

1) she knows and you know full well that you are the one that cares the most in any interaction that the 2 of you have had or ever will have

2) she knows she can get better value than you on open the market

3) her interest is low and you are mixed in with 7 other guys her interest is also low for


make of it what you will and correct yourself where needed but i hang around with a lot of chicks and i swear to you brothers that this is gospel

so how do you know the difference between low interest or just playing hard to get ?

well yes of course women will play hard to get especially the high quality ones who are at a peak in they're market value ,

but the truth is we don't really give a fvck about how valuable she is because WE are worth more than 10 of her put together

a high quality woman may very well play hard to get , but she won't play so hard that you CANT get it

if you remain cool calm and collected and keep seeing other women as well as occasionally showing a little interest in her eventually somethings gonna give

and that something will be her need to know WHY you aren't chasing her like all the other desperate chumps in her phonebook

throw the block of cheese out and then slowly reel it in from her

watch the power shift , and never be the one chasing the cheese

 

[GS750]

Love the cheese analogy. Great post too.

 

[Bingo-Player]

thanks guys

its so hard to get men to understand that what a woman says she wants and what she actually wants are two completely different concepts

I'm still have major problems drilling this into my mates heads one is slowly starting to come around to the idea of treating women the way they need to be treated in order to achieve success with them

the other however seems to listen to what i am saying, but is then absolutely hell bent on the mindset of needing to please a woman he is interested in

this chick he's been involved with was sick the other week, tonsillitis or some s*it instead of avoiding the b*tch like the plague and telling her he still expects BJ's on command

, he jumps out of bed at her command running around town getting her medicine, flowers , chocolates & magazines

a fortnight later and she tells him they should just be friends and he is heartbroken

i rest my case