"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Flaker. What to do?

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seek&destroy

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This chick I know constantly flakes out on me. I got pissed at her today cuz she was supposed to meet me and she never showed up...

Now I imagine she's gonna have an excuse for it but I don't think I can put up with any of her crap anymore...what should I do? NEXT her?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you want next, then go for it. But if you still want her, you got one last chance. Set something up she just can't resist then bail out on her a**! Then give her one of the lame a** excuses she give like I got called into work or whatever it is that works for you.
 
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It's a bit immature, but I like doing it. If a girl pisses me off and bails on me, and I end up having to make other plans, I do the same to her. Make the plans, call her right before you're supposed to meet and say something like "Hey, sorry but I won't be going tonight, something came up." and go hang out with another broad. If she hears about it, she'll be pissed. That'll fade and she'll be wanting to win you over.
 
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Show her you are a man and not afraid to get mad at her. Do not tolerate that sort of behavior. But don't be mean to her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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