I've been on dating/meeting women overload lately between bars, online, and even random places (Target, the airport, etc) and I've just gotten used to flaking being a part of the game for most girls.
I just had a girl who I only went out with a couple of times make a big deal to tell me that she couldn't start a new relationship now, etc. because of some specific family issues which I know are true, but reading through the ******** is more likely due to an ex-boyfriend or another guy. Anyway, she and I did hit it off, but it was just a couple of dates, and it's not like we were exclusive or anything.
She seemed to be nervous telling me this, but I give her a lot of respect. Most girls would simply avoid your call, not respond to texts, etc, especially for the fact that it's not like she was obligated to give me any reasons.
I basically told her that it was no problem, that I had fun with her, and that maybe I'd see her around. There wasn't much more for me to say than that, as I did think she was cool, but didn't have much invested in her at this point.
I only post this because given the amount of flakey and chickensh1t chicks out there, it's nice to see that there are some stand-up girls in the mix.
satin
I just had a girl who I only went out with a couple of times make a big deal to tell me that she couldn't start a new relationship now, etc. because of some specific family issues which I know are true, but reading through the ******** is more likely due to an ex-boyfriend or another guy. Anyway, she and I did hit it off, but it was just a couple of dates, and it's not like we were exclusive or anything.
She seemed to be nervous telling me this, but I give her a lot of respect. Most girls would simply avoid your call, not respond to texts, etc, especially for the fact that it's not like she was obligated to give me any reasons.
I basically told her that it was no problem, that I had fun with her, and that maybe I'd see her around. There wasn't much more for me to say than that, as I did think she was cool, but didn't have much invested in her at this point.
I only post this because given the amount of flakey and chickensh1t chicks out there, it's nice to see that there are some stand-up girls in the mix.
satin