fkd up dilemma!! the whole story

[baurman]

my buddy ryan introduced me to his friend from New York, her name is Megan. Megan told Ryan that I'm cute blah blah... we went out that day and chilled all 3 of us. I ended up getting Megans number and we were to go out later that night. Megan calls me and tells me that her friends flaked her and no one can pick her up, so I pick her up. We all go out and have a good time. I kinda make some moves on her and we danced at the club, etc. I took her home that night but no sex.

Next time we go out I pick her up at her place and we meet Ryan and all our buddies at the club. I try to move in for a kiss but she keeps telling me "Not yet...too fast" I'm like alright fine. She and my buddy Ryan are talking and I'm thinking nothing of it cause they know each other. Next thing I know I see them MAKING THE FCK OUT!!!! I confront him and I tell him WTF and he tells me that we're all drunk and she made the move on him. He told me if it wasn't for him I would've never even met her so chill the fck out. "She's from New York, She's leaving in a week. Stop trying to date her and ****"

I confront Megan about it and she tells me she feels like a slvt now and all this shyt. She tells me that the reason why she doesn't allow me to kiss her is because she doesn't want to fall for me and have feelings for me cause she is attracted to me and when she leaves next week then she'll be sad. She did it to Ryan because she has no attraction to him so it's nothing she just wants to have fun. Truth?

Now all I really want to do is fvck her. She doesn't let me fck her. I fingered her this morning when she slept over but when I took her panties off she stopped me and said "no!" so I stopped. I don't know why I am stuck with the bytches that wanna date me. I just wanna have fun too and just bang a chick and move on but they feed me this bullshyt line "If we have sex I will fall for you and I don't want that" WTF?!

 

[Jitterbug]

You're probably coming off as the boyfriend type. You know the guy they want to date and have a proper relationship with. To use Johnny Soporno's words, it's the guy whom they will count when they track how many they've been with. That's why she doesn't want to do anything with you as she'll feel like a slvt.

I've had this problem for a long long time and I still have it to a large extent. I've only overcome it in some specific cases recently. I recommend watching those presentations by Johnny Soporno. There's a thread on them on this site.

I confront Megan about it and she tells me she feels like a slvt now and all this shyt. She tells me that the reason why she doesn't allow me to kiss her is because she doesn't want to fall for me and have feelings for me cause she is attracted to me and when she leaves next week then she'll be sad. She did it to Ryan because she has no attraction to him so it's nothing she just wants to have fun. Truth?

Don't confront or argue with women. It's a waste of time. She's using chick logic on you. It doesn't really mean anything. Watch her actions instead. This is her ASD at play.

Now all I really want to do is fvck her. She doesn't let me fck her. I fingered her this morning when she slept over but when I took her panties off she stopped me and said "no!" so I stopped. I don't know why I am stuck with the bytches that wanna date me. I just wanna have fun too and just bang a chick and move on but they feed me this bullshyt line "If we have sex I will fall for you and I don't want that" WTF?!

LMR. It's simply because you're going too fast. When she says no, go back to where you started, rinse & repeat until she's too horny to say no. One chick that I bedded on the first date had a fairly serious case of LMR which took me about 4 hours of making out and fooling around (rinse & repeat) until she was too horny to even think about LMR and initiated the rest.

Again, don't listen to women's "reasons" and chick logic. It'll drive you mad, as it does to pretty much every guy out there.

 

[KarmaSutra]

i have the opposite problem of you. all the girls i hook up with are sluts and they cant wait to take their panties off with me... or any other guy.

Dan, this is what you've learned under Supreme's tutelage? Settle for skanks?
Brother, what you need is a MAN to MENtor you into your next stage of evolution.

Your tone is one of a defeated and rotting carcass walking around zombie-like in pursuit of tail. You have to realize that tricks and tactics do not make you a man.