"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Five Steps to Becoming a DJ

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I've had enough of the discussion thread being spammed by AFCs. This thread, aims to help these people cut the spam rate at the forum.

To become a DJ,

1)Read the DAMN BIBLE!

There's a link at the bottom of every page of sosuave.
Forget the boy in you, grow some hair, read the bible. The DJ bible consists of all knowledge and information that you'll ever need to get girls.

2)Re-wire your mind.


Part i
If your mind constantly reminds you of how AFC your behaviour is, or even constantly thinks of a certain girl, it's time yourself get a new CPU. I mean seriously which desktop works good with only one core? You see the top desktops with dual, quad cores.

You need to think about two girls minimum, or none at all, if you really need to. By opening up your choices, you will have no chances (i mean it, no chances) of getting your wussyness back in you.

Part ii
Value yourself more.
One way of doing that, is to look back into your past, and look at your present self. Do that, followed by visualizing how you want to be in future.
Now, that feels good doesn't it? Hell it does, because, you are who you want to be.


3)Experience

After your presets are done, its time to get into the game.
It isn't good to read so much, but do nothing. Unless you have actually tried the stuff out, you cannot be claimed as a DJ. Yet this experience, is your bestfriend, and teacher. After each try, you automatically feel that it is unnecessary to feel nervous, anxious, or whatever, and it kills all the wussyness before.

4)Evaluation
This step, is targeted at newbies, to see how each move you've made, is good or bad.
Evaluate each move, and judge how you've done, and grade yourself. This step is interlinked with experience, as the more you evaluate, the more of the things that should be or should not be done, is clearly grasped.


5)REPEAT.

Like lifting, you continue to lift, until you get stronger, and maintain your muscles. Repetition drills things into your mind unconsciously and once you repeat each step, you know more.

To end off, being a DJ is like being on a treadmill.
1)Get yourself a pair of shoes
2)Get yourself into the state, or the zone
3)Try running
4)Judge how you've ran
5)Continue to run

and remember, you are who you want to be.
BTW this is my first tip, so criticism is welcome, but to the extent of helping our fellow DJs.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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