First wedding: How to sarge?

[j8snx1]

QUICK! I'd like some tips or something for tomorrow! ASAP!

Alright, so I'm attending a wedding tomorrow and everytime I think about it, I think of Wedding Crashers. :crackup:

I just felt like asking...but

do you guys want to suggest to me any advices, tips, encouragements, words of wisdom, or anything before I try to sarge on tomorrow?

P.S. - It's a korean wedding dudes...lots of fluent speaking koreans. What's ironic is that I'M korean yet I don't speak as fluently as the other people do. Sarging those fob chicks will be a challenge

P.P.S. - It would be very helpful if you guys can tell me what to talk about that is wedding related or something. It's my first attending a wedding, and I wanna get a good impression of it (by doing the DJ of course).

Thanks.

 

[Ace of Flames]

last wedding i went to, it was mostly girls in their 20s, and the one before that, i was like 11. if there are any girls closer to your age there, u might as well hang out with them, else be bored watching your aunt gertrude dance with cousin freddy. i dont see all that much u could do tho. i mean, if its a decent sized wedding, there will be people everywhere. and since u're only 17, its not like u can take her home afterwards, like in wedding crashers, lol. u gotta go home with your parents. kinda lame.

on the other hand, u'll probably never see most of these people again, so u can go all out. as for what to talk about? just anything, really. comment on your surroundings. find out how she relates to the bride/groom. laugh about how long it took to get all dressed up and ready for this stupid thing. eat some of the little sandwiches together. just use what u're given, man. take advantage of the situation.

the korean thing? i dunno what to tell u about that. counter their fluency in korean with yours in english! mwahahaha...... worth a shot anyway.

tell us how it goes

 

[defiancy]

im korean myself and I can tell you it's going to be hard while you speak english and the other person speaks korean. Yea I'm not a very fluent speaker myself, but I'm a decent one

I can just imagine the situation...you make eye contact, approach, and sadly you have a hard time carrying out a decent convo'

I would just find myself an english speaking korean girl there rather than go through the trouble of speaking choppy korean

hope your language skills are sharp lol

just be cool and confident

 

[j8snx1]

I'm not expecting much from this wedding, really. If there are women to sarge, I'm in. If not, oh well. The worst thing that can happen is that I get free food!

I'll definitely report back once I return!

 

[Brian20o2]

And wine if your lucky. Parents alot of the time let kids drink at weddings.

 

[Patrick124]

last wedding i went to...
my uncle bought be rum n cokes. i was like...14. it was pimp.
man my uncle is a bada-ss. lol.
christmas he made me screwdrivers. i offered my dad some of my "orange juice"a nd he jsut laugehd n goes "nah, i don't wnat some of your special orange juice."

anyways, crashing weddings is gonna be hard. i duno...good luck.

 

[the_reader]

haha ok, well i dont' speak korean fluently either, i can understand most of what ppl are saying and give a reasonable reply, i still have a few fobs chase me.

it's not about you speaking fluently, it's about the way you speak and carry yourself. also... it helps if culturally your like them, by that i mean... often asians that stay in western countries, or are born in them are considered too western for some girls.

so you know what i mean, korean girls on the surface is quite conservative.. so i dont know about trying anything physical too fast <- that's just an eg

for me, i tend to speak to the fobs that have pretty good english as well. that way they can speak their native language and english as well, i can do the same, and when i want to be funny or humorous, i can speak english and they'll get what i'm talking about, but for regular general things i'll speak korean to them.

 

[j8snx1]

FIELD REPORT: Let down.

Wedding = boring.
The only way I could've had fun was if I was a best man, or one of the bride or groom's friends. All the decent looking girls were bunched up on the bride/groom's tables, thus I had no opportunity to approach, since I didn't know the bride/groom or any of their friends. Plus, the other women were 40 years and up.

I was a little disappointed. I haven't sarged for a few months now guys, and life is getting a little tedious. I haven't been able to go out either, especially since finals is right around the freakin corner. The girls @ high school are lame now. Either I dated some of the hotties, or the other hotties are already taken.

Weddings blow, unless you have "fresh meat" roaming about.

 

[Ace of Flames]

dont wanna say i told ya so, but.... yea...

i imagine weddings will be better as we get older, and maybe when u're closer to the bride/groom, not the son of the groom's 3rd aunt.

if the bride and groom are like 30+, then the majority of the guests will follow suit. when u're older, try some weddings where the bride/groom are in their early 20s, and u should have better chances.

feeling down? just try to pull thru. after finals and all, it'll be like a weight lifted off your's and everyone else's shoulders. things should start looking up by then.

 

[MightyMate]

There is some movie about guys who get woman on weeding. I forgot title. Comedy. CHeck it.