"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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First Time Sex experience bad :( and lump buster problem

Duracell_Bunny

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Wow its been a while since I've been on here.

To cut to the chase, sex really isn't what people make it out to be or is it just me?

I had the worst new year ever, I went to a club at 11pm and went home at midnight. I got singled out and left on my own. My friends all got grabbed by the hand and taken onto the dancefloor just before midnight leaving me on my own - they all got laid and these girls were stunning. We know them as they were out with our freinds girlfriend.

I tried a few approaches but just got the freindly but cold sholder.

Out of frustration and drinking in my local pub last weekend, a girl was is in there who I haven't seen for years (not very attractive and a bit overweight), used to know her as an "aquentace". The pub was closing and she asked if I had any drinks at my place. I was so down about new year I had to do someting.

As for the rest of it, she certainly enjoyed herself in bed but I just could not orgasm or ejaculate. She had teird out before I could even get going. She thanked me in the morning for making her *** a few times and she gave a ******* that looked like something out of a top rated porn movie - ball sucking, sexy stairs, groaning and fingering herself, the lot. Again, could not get going, I could have been making my breakfast at the same time for all I had cared.

The only previous expereince I've had was with two other girls, but these were just a bit of drunken oral and a quick play if you know what I mean. Nothing long lasting, even then I didn't orgasm at all.

The strange thing is, I get an erection really easily. Sometimes just kissing will set it off. When she was cuddling me in bed I'd be lying there with a massive hard on feeling horny.

I though first time intercorse was suppose to last seconds???

This girl had a massive argument with her husband, and thats why she was back in the area for the weekend with her parents. She now won't stop texting me, to the point where I havn't replied and she sends another. At the moment shes the other side of the country and says shes back at the end of the month. She texts every day complaining about things like how bored she is at work.

I've not masterbated for days, and nothing is really turning me on in the thought that after years of crying with my **** in my hand its not that great afterall. Is there something seriously wrong with me??? Im worried :confused: Im in my mid twenties, I should be living the high life.

Has anyone else had this problem? I should be happy but maybe new year has blown me apart. It was rejection to the extreme, I feel second class for having to go so low. The only consulation is theres a girl who is desperate for me, nice but er... its too unusual. Is she a goldigger? I'm in a succssful carrier and a nice house living on my own. She is organizing to move into her parents.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Duracell_Bunny

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Yeah, they had a major fall out and she's left him.
 

Stéphane

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When I first started out having sex with my girlfriend it completely sucked, I couldn't even get an erection. I just tolerated it, as timed moved on I was able to get an erection, but I still couldn't get off.

Right now things are intense and I can *** inside of her in a matter of minutes. I was also questioning myself, and wondering if I was gay even though I wasn't attracted to guys.

I use too masturbate around three times a day for years. So maybe that was a big part of it, and you're just desensitize by the feeling of your hand.
 

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I slept with an ugly bird once and didn't feel right about it at all after. So something similar.


Why did you get left behind in the club? It sounds like you're an AFC still so you should work on yourself.


The girl could be a golddigger alright. You need to watch out for them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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