"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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first post and need some advice

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blg1236 said:
So definatley no contact? and let her change the status on Facebook??.
Thanks
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You're a 48 year old MAN and you are concerned about her status on Facebook? Time to move on. This kind of drama is for kids in their teens and their 20's. For whatever reason, we (as older guys) do get caught up in this kind of behavior, but this is just noise in our heads. Recognize that this isn't working. You said you have no problem dating, and it appears that you are seeking something better, or you wouldn't be here. So let this be a lesson, and you will not be tortured in to this type of immature behavior the next time.
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Agreed with 3rdTime. You are a man, but checking someones facebook profile? WTF for? Get out there and meet new. I guarantee that you'll laugh at your own behavior as soon as you find someone new to occupy your time~
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blg1236 said:
damn...thats all you get after 5-1/2 years......thx
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This relationship was over well before now. Probably more like 3 years.
 
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