First "mysterious" Girl in a Long Time

[jeffthechef]

Things have been going well. No more oneitis, and having fun with the ladies. Now, this girl she's probably at the middle of my list is in my band class, which allows for a lot of talk time. BTW, there's only one person in between us in class, and he's quiet usually and sometimes joins in the conversation. Anyways, I first met her when i was an AFC. I would pack my instrument at her pace and try to pass by her on the way to her next class. At that time, we talked a bit but i was an afc.

This year, i completely changed. i would pack at my own pace and during class i wouldn't be looking over at her constantly. Or, trying to force conversations. Now, I talk to the people all around me and i'm smiling and laughing, and i see her staring over at me more often. She's the one who starts the conversations and smiles/laughs/flirts with me. However, she has a habit of ditching the class, since the teacher never really takes attendance. She's been ditching since before we met so it's not a new thing. BUT, why would she ditch and start flirting with me at the same time?

Either way, i'm probably going to number close this week.
Nonetheless, I would enjoy your opinions for future reference.

What do you think she's doing?
What should I do?

Things to consider:
1. She's always staring at me and trying to conversate.
2. She's somewhat popular.
3. She's a grade below me.
4. I don't think she has had a bf in a long time.
5. She's about an 8-9ish.

 

[Analyzeit]

It would make it easier if everyone saw this question then everytime they wanted to ask a question, they set it out exactly like you do.

Since you've given me advice and your opinion, i'll give you mine haha.

I have a habit of bunking aswell, so i think i can understand. I have this kind of thing all the time the question i ask in my head is "Why would she leave/not even initate conversation/ect...ect when she gives giving signs that she want me, isn't this a bad sign." and now you realising you've just asked the question really is this a good or a bad sign which i'm quite surprised your asking haha.

I Remember what I used to call these questions when I used to analyze everything these things would always annoy me!

The thing is she has something better to do when she's ditching then just flirting with you could be just for something to do in class or there could be something behind it you really can't tell at all. But as you said either way your going to number close so no matter!

I don't know what people do when they ditch class where your from, but I know what we do here and that met up with friends or do drugs/smoke so could be anything but it's most likely better then flirting and trying to conversate with you or it could be peer pressure her friends are telling her to bunk so she does, this is a really open question which you can never really answer maybe if you had more information on where she's goes if she ditched like if she goes it sits somewhere by herself and listens to her ipod then you out of luck haha

So what Do I think she's doing? Whats more fun for her or what her friends do.

What Should You Do? Number close, she is flirting with you nonetheless even if your not the best thing on her list of things to do why should you think you are anyway.

Hope I helped

 

[jeffthechef]

It would make it easier if everyone saw this question then everytime they wanted to ask a question, they set it out exactly like you do.

Since you've given me advice and your opinion, i'll give you mine haha.

I have a habit of bunking aswell, so i think i can understand. I have this kind of thing all the time the question i ask in my head is "Why would she leave/not even initate conversation/ect...ect when she gives giving signs that she want me, isn't this a bad sign." and now you realising you've just asked the question really is this a good or a bad sign which i'm quite surprised your asking haha.

I Remember what I used to call these questions when I used to analyze everything these things would always annoy me!

The thing is she has something better to do when she's ditching then just flirting with you could be just for something to do in class or there could be something behind it you really can't tell at all. But as you said either way your going to number close so no matter!

I don't know what people do when they ditch class where your from, but I know what we do here and that met up with friends or do drugs/smoke so could be anything but it's most likely better then flirting and trying to conversate with you or it could be peer pressure her friends are telling her to bunk so she does, this is a really open question which you can never really answer maybe if you had more information on where she's goes if she ditched like if she goes it sits somewhere by herself and listens to her ipod then you out of luck haha

So what Do I think she's doing? Whats more fun for her or what her friends do.

What Should You Do? Number close, she is flirting with you nonetheless even if your not the best thing on her list of things to do why should you think you are anyway.

Hope I helped

Yeah, that's what i was thinking. "If she's ditching, it must be because there's something better to do."
I don't think she would make a good gf in my mind anyways, knowing she lacks commitment. BUT, perhaps i could get a little FWB action. She's got these sexy round calves and a firm body.