First message on DM's

[nelysses]

Hey guys, I just wait a story for first messages and I try to write something funny including a question about story(If she doesn't share story I just just write about like her a post)
So she replies and may be finds myself funny etc but nowadays I started to think it's bad for me?
It's not masculine. It's like "We are both know why i'm writing to you but I'm offering an excuse cause if i text directly to you, you will reject me."
What you guys think about that?
Is it good or should i text her more directly?

 

[holidayad_]

"We are both know why i'm writing to you but I'm offering an excuse cause if i text directly to you, you will reject me."

I think that it's not a good line. You are depreciating yourself telling her she would reject you.

 

[nelysses]

I think that it's not a good line. You are depreciating yourself telling her she would reject you.

Man I'm not saying this to girl. I just think like that.
I just try to say something funny including a small question
For example i see a girl going barbie and i said "are you really watch barbie instead of oppenheimer " She said I will go oppenheimer tomorrow and we started to talk about films.
But I don't know is it true?

 

[holidayad_]

Man I'm not saying this to girl. I just think like that.
I just try to say something funny including a small question
For example i see a girl going barbie and i said "are you really watch barbie instead of oppenheimer " She said I will go oppenheimer tomorrow and we started to talk about films.
But I don't know is it true?

I think that can be a good strategy to get her attention. But one thing that most guys on SS tell and I can confirm as the best way to go is to go for the close ASAP. Always try to invite her for a few drinks in the first 5-7 texts. Less chit-chat, more action.

 

[nelysses]

I think that can be a good strategy to get her attention. But one thing that most guys on SS tell and I can confirm as the best way to go is to go for the close ASAP. Always try to invite her for a few drinks in the first 5-7 texts. Less chit-chat, more action.

One day I chit-Chat for 3 weeks. That was terrible
Should I compliment in first messages?

 

[holidayad_]

Should I compliment in first messages?

I never do that.