"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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im kinda broke right now but she wants to do something. I refuse to tell her i dont have a lot of cash right now, so what are my options other than that? what are some cheap but good dates to go on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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muff diving followed by a healthy portion of tube steak
 

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I'm good at this..

You can get a movie at blockbuster and have her come over to watch it. Works for me.
 

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
I'm good at this..

You can get a movie at blockbuster and have her come over to watch it. Works for me.


cool ill try that.

i guess i better start cleaning up now though... lol
 

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Please, please, please do a search before asking questions you know have been asked and answered at least 8953982 times before. Thanks.

Originally posted by diablo
1) Do you like to cook? Cook for her.
2) Rent a video from Blockbuster.
3) Take a walk at the park or beach.
4) Volunteer at a shelter for the homeless, or an orphanage.
5) Go fishing at the pier.
6) Go hiking in the boonies.
7) Rollerblading or Biking.
8) Breakfast. Brunch. Lunch. Dinner.
9) Movies (only after 2nd date) or live concert or performing arts.
10) Go to museums.
11) Disneyland, Magic Mountain, Universal Studio, Knott Berry Farm, etc...
12) Skiing, boat ride.
13) Dinner cruises.
14) Go for a drink at a pub.
15) Dancing/clubbing.
16) Karaoke/singing.
17) Coffee houses, or tea.
18) Watch the sundown/sunup, look at the stars and moon.
19) Carriage ride.
20) Limo cruise out in the town.
21) Balloon ride over the blue yonder.
22) A good chat.
23) Window shopping or shopping at the mall.
25) Massage parlor.
26) Go to a friend's party.
27) Any circus in town. Ringling Brothers.
28) Watch for festivals like: Jazz, Chili, Reggae, international dance festivals.
29) Go to swap meets.
30) Like animals? Go to the zoo or Seaworld.
31) Baseball, Football, Basketball or any sporting events.
32) Watch fireworks.
33) Go-carts.
34) Miniature golfing.
35) Kayaking.
36) Go to the border to eat lobsters.
37) Watch race car drivers or monster truck shows.
38) Wrestling, or is it too hard for you?
39) How about gambling? Go to casinos.
40) Batting cages.
41) Del Mar fairground.
42) Horse back riding.
43) Wine tasting at Vineyard.
44) Did I say sailing yet?
45) Go to the mountains when it snows.
46) Day at the country to pick fruits.
47) Picnic at the park or wherever scenic.
48) Go to botanical gardens; see flowers.
49) Like arcades? Go to Nickel City.
50) Yoga/Meditation.

Taken from http://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall168.htm


1. AMUSEMENT PARKS - This really makes for a fun date, especially if you both enjoy thrill-seeking rides such as roller coasters, etc. Also, don't forget to try and win her a teddy bear or other keepsake.

2. BALLOON RIDES - I am referring to hot-air balloon rides. This is a breath-taking experience you both will never forget. It's very romantic and some rides even come with champagne.

3. BOAT RENTAL - This makes for a unique experience and it's so relaxing and enjoyable. You can charter a boat with captain and crew or rent a powerboat for skiing, fishing, or just for cruising.

4. CAMPING - What a great way to enjoy the great outdoors! Things really get cozy and romantic sitting in front of an open fire! This is sure to melt her heart and make her want to share your sleeping bar.

5. CARRIAGE RIDES - This is one of the ultimate romantic experiences. Just you and your lover or date in a horse-drawn carriage enjoying the scenery.

6. DINNER AT YOUR PLACE - One of my favorite things to do is to invite a lady over for a candlelight steak dinner and champagne. I do all the cooking and wait on my date hand and foot. I really make my date feel special. So, if you really want to make someone feel special and have a romantic evening, do this for a very special date.

7. DINNER THEATRE - There's nothing like good entertainment while you're eating. Your date will really be impressed and this is one of my top choices to take a date to.

8. GO-CARTS - These are a lot of fun for adults too. Why not challenge your date to a race around the track.

9. HAY RIDES - Have you ever been on a hayride? It's a lot of fun and something very different to do.

10. HELICOPTER RIDES - This was one of the most exciting dates I ever went on. My date and I took a helicopter tour of downtown San Diego and the Shoreline. I was especially fascinated flying over the skyscrapers and looking down on them. This will be an expensive date, because to charter a helicopter can cost you up to $500 an hour. If you can afford it, it's worth the money just for the experience.

11. HORSE RACES OR DOG RACES - Here's another fun activity you can both share and make some money too, if you are lucky.

12. ICE SKATING - Don't know how to skate? No problem, It's a lot of fun just learning. Sure, you're going to take a few spills on the ice. It's all part of the fun! This is great place to go on a date even if you don't know how to ice skate. You can always take lessons, too.

13. JET SKIS - This is like riding a motorcycle on the water and your date can ride on the back. Take my word for it, this is the ultimate joy ride while having some great fun on the water. You can rent them for about $20 for a half-hour.

14. KITE FLYING - Stop by any toy store and pick up a kite and go on a kite date. Head for your local park, beach, or any wide-open space. Kites are not just for kids. It's a fun experience for all ages and it's kind of romantic. So, get your date and go fly a kite.

15. LIMOUSINE DATE - When you want to tell someone they're special, what better way to do it than with the unexpected. Sending flowers is nice, but sending flowers with a limousine is unforgettable. This is a great way to let dancers know they are real special to you.

16. LIVE MUSIC - This will put you and your date in a good mood, especially if the band is good. Check out your area for places that offer live music. Take her to Rock Concerts too.

17. MOONLIGHT STROLLS - When there's a full moon and clear skies, head for any lake or seashore. It's so romantic to take your shoes off and wade along the shore with the full moon gleaming on the water

Taken from http://www.sosuave.com/articles/17.htm
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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