Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
First Date
- Thread starter Clarky
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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1. Be flirtatious. Acknowledge that she "looks good" and use lots of Kino. The last thing you want to do is waste your time on a male-female friendship.Clarky said:Hi guys going on my first date in two hours!
I can tell that she thinks i'm alot more experienced than i actually am, probably due to my confidence ect..
Can I have any last minute tips please? To make sure it runs smoothly
2. Make her laugh, and keep the conversation flowing.
3. Dont stick around too long. Make the first date short and sweet.
4. End it with a lingering kiss. If she refuses, next her ass.
Though i'd take her to the entertainment section first, get her playfull side out and if everything goes well from there we might go to the cinema and i'll really start to escalate things in the dark
that way aswell i can prevent too many lulls in conversation.Doing these activities gives me more time to think and we dont have to concentrate purely on conversation to have a good time. My only problem is taking it to the next stage, we've already made out and so i'm confident around her body, i'll just use lots of kino and take things form there
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.