"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First attempt at an approach... DENIED!

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This girl was walking down my way. and I had this brother pair that I was arguing that one's haircut looked better than the other. I asked this girl "Could you do me a favor: tell me who's haircut is better?"


Girl gave me that dirty look girls give and kept walking... stupid ****...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hmmm too bad. She was probably on the rag!
 
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If that was your first ever approach, expect MANY more rejections. Don't worry though, once you get it to work it will be that much better.
 
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What a b!tch. But think of it this way, she just saved you a whole lot of time.
 
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Maybe I scared her off, because I asked a little before she walked in front of us. I guess I could see that I was a little scary to her, but she gave me a dirty look. I don't know....


I'll try a different method Monday.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice! That's when I would persue that skag!

There's nothing better than trying to hook up with a woman that's a totally mean b!tch, CAUSE THEN YOU DON'T FEEL BAD WHEN YOU BONE AND BAIL. Hoorah.
 
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I asked this girl "Could you do me a favor: tell me who's haircut is better?"
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Maybe try this next time say "Hi, excuse me....I could use your female opinion on whos haircut is better" or something along the lines of that. Got that from DD
 
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i bet ur friends were laughin at u hahah

its aite tho man, jus laugh n move on
 
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