Finding women boring

[Glassguy]

I don't get turned on by 5s and 6s. I also find shallow and women with no personality or wit to be boring.
Use it as a screening process. If they don't have basic traits you're looking for, eject.

 

[devilkingx2]

Should we be the ones to constantly have to engineer creative conversation ? because it certainly feels like it

Yes absolutely yes. Unless the girl is an extremely interesting person or herself is skilled at engineering interesting conversation.

Don't ask her generic questions anyone would ask her, or you'll get generic job interview answers and discussions. Ask her something like "what's the craziest thing that's ever happened to you on the metro?"

I read a Reddit thread about that subject in my city and there's people who were just like "I saw a homeless guy smoking crack on the C train" or "I saw a crazy fight" or "I almost got stabbed by a hobo"

I was in a bar last night opened up a set HB5 & HB 7.5 ..... the 5 knew me and was friendly enough lots of hair playing and submission as you would expect the 7.5 who i didnt know was also giggling , hair tossing all usual female IOI's

But my god they were so boring .....we had to have a 30-45 min lecture about how badly men in previous relationships has treated them , then 30 min talk about HB7.5's work ( tax accounting ) yawn and then finally when HB7.5 started talking about star signs ( another female favourite topic ) she was telling me all about hers i was so bored i said oh yea " so what are (insert star sign) women like in bed ?

Everyone around the table was laughing but HB7.5 went coy and before i knew it we were back to talking about nonsense, I did make several attempts to switch conversation to a sexual tone with her but she just couldn't catch my vibe

It got to the point where i actually said to my wingman come on lets go

I know not all chicks are like this as i have met fun ones that will bounce off me but lately i am finding it so tiring going through all the rigmarole of small talk with women

Think a lot of them REALLY struggle to converse at a level above current / popular culture yet they all seem to want too " get to know you" before getting down to sex ..... its strange because it almost feels to me like women are just following these unwritten rules that seem to offer zero benefit for either party

If they're avoiding sexual conversation it could be
1. They're trying to friend zone you already

2. They're not going to talk about sex in front of a bunch of people to maintain their image.

And if you want to find interesting girls you need to define "interesting" and meet the girls who would fit that definition.

For example, if I pick up chicks at an arcade, I'll be very interested in talking about games with them. If I pick up chicks at a strip club, talking to them about sex, partying and drugs will be a blast, etc.

 

[user252009]

I travelled a lot during the last week here in Germany, and can only confirm. There were a lot of early 20's girls travelling on the train rides I took together, and listening to their conversation, it's just one "he said she said" or "and then we did this, and then we did this" after another. No depth whatsoever in conversation, just superficial bull****, just listening to it made me bored. I think it's just about talking to people (and women) that have at least to some degree same interests as you, but when the society is as brainwashed and fed opinions as these days, and women naturally wanna fit into the society more than men, it's harder and harder to find these true connections (with any person, not just women).

 

[zinc4]

I was in a bar last night opened up a set HB5 & HB 7.5 ..... the 5 knew me and was friendly enough lots of hair playing and submission as you would expect the 7.5 who i didnt know was also giggling , hair tossing all usual female IOI's

But my god they were so boring .....we had to have a 30-45 min lecture about how badly men in previous relationships has treated them , then 30 min talk about HB7.5's work ( tax accounting ) yawn and then finally when HB7.5 started talking about star signs ( another female favourite topic ) she was telling me all about hers i was so bored i said oh yea " so what are (insert star sign) women like in bed ?

Everyone around the table was laughing but HB7.5 went coy and before i knew it we were back to talking about nonsense, I did make several attempts to switch conversation to a sexual tone with her but she just couldn't catch my vibe

It got to the point where i actually said to my wingman come on lets go

I know not all chicks are like this as i have met fun ones that will bounce off me but lately i am finding it so tiring going through all the rigmarole of small talk with women

Think a lot of them REALLY struggle to converse at a level above current / popular culture yet they all seem to want too " get to know you" before getting down to sex ..... its strange because it almost feels to me like women are just following these unwritten rules that seem to offer zero benefit for either party

Career women are the worst.

About star signs: You could have used that sign talk big time in your favor though. Study up on that stuff lol. As silly as it sounds it can be interesting and gives you a lot to talk to any female in this world.

Every country i have been to almost every girl believes in it. So it is a HUGE addition to gaming a new girl. Its so good because it helps you connect with her and you can use it to lead to fast kino like transitioning to reading her palm or standing up with her to look at the starts then put your arm around her back or shoulder ect.