"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Finding the perfect balance!

Sammo

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There are always 2 sides to every spectrum in life. Hot and Cold, Good and Bad, Big and Small, etc. There are 2 sides to your spectrum as well, and supreme happiness is never achieved until these 2 sides learn to exist together in harmony.


So what exactly are your two sides? And how do you get them to "exist together in harmony"?


Well, the answers to these questions are complicated but vital to your achievement of happiness. So this means where all going to have to think a little. :)


Your first side we can title your modern side while the other one takes the title of the natural side. The modern side's roll is to pursue societies needs while your natural side plans on fulfilling your more primative needs. :)


The modern sides consists of things such as professionalism, your work ethic, politeness and all those things society promote. Which is good at the right times but doesnt do you much good in the gym. The natural side consists of those things such as determination, agressiveness, competition, adventure and sex (AKA all the things men are lacking today).


First of all, it is important to know that with out one, the other begins to falter. Have you ever noticed that when things go wrong, they REALLY start to go wrong? That's because one of your sides is starting to weaken and the other follows it right to the very end. The reason they falter is because one starts to get neglected. When the modern side gets neglected, your life at school/work begins to be a drag and your start getting bad grades at school, this forces a kind of depression which stops you from fulfilling those primative needs. What happens when you neglect your natural side? Well, put simply, you become a nerd, AFC, etc. A depressed workaholic who has no idea of what fun is. Eventually the depression gets to them so bad you cant even do your work anymore, so you become fat and unemployed. :p


The trick to stopping your sides from faltering is being aware of their existance and acknowledging which side you should be using at any one time. For example, when your at the gym you need to let that beast out. When your at home you need to let the inner nerd out and do your work. When your at a club you need to let the animal out, within reason though, you still need that little nerd in the back of your head stopping you from commiting rape.


However, the main problem here isn't that we don't know what sides to use and when, even though it helps. The real problem is that we havent been in touch with this other side for so ****en long we dont even know it exists any more. You really have to discover it again. Lets look at it more closely.


Determination
This is because your natural side wants you to be the best, it wants you to suceed and get all the women in the world. Be determined to be big, be determined to be ****en hot, be determined to not give a ****! :D


Competition
This ties in closely with determination. This time its not about being the best in the world, its about being better then the guys who are right there in front of you. Be better at sport, be stronger, be faster, be suaver, be a ****en **** load better.


Adventure
The need to see new things, to experience things others would only dream of. Adventure is hard to do nowadays, one crazy trip up to the coast with your mates could be considered an adventure.


Sex
I don't need to explain this. The need for *****.


This is all pretty complicated, but i managed to sum up all these in one challenge.

My Challenge

Adrenaline is the answer to bring out the natural side in you. In order to bring out adrenaline you have to do something either more sexual, adventurous, competitive, or determined then you ussually do. So, you feel adrenaline and you will be come more of a man.

It has been said that if you do something once every day for 21 days then it will become a habit. Wether this is true or not i don't know but for the sake of the challenge its ****en true!

The challenge is to feel adrenaline at least once every day, for 21 days. On top of that, you can not wank at all. Don't tell me that you dont know how to feel that adrenaline rush, im sure you can, yell out in front of an audience, approach that chick, etc. Do whatever it is your inner man is asking you to do.

Post your experiences here.

Quick tip: Put a big A on your hand to remind you to pump that adrenaline. And if anyone teases you for it, then grab his ears and nut him in the face right there, im sure that will get the adrenaline going. :)

Quick warning: Dont forget your modern side. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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you've explained this well sammo and it's well timed too since i've just been reading all those 'be a man' posts

it's a really good idea to get your adrenaline flowing in the morning because it sets you up for a good day. this morning i managed it by roaring and doing those star jumps while listening to some really loud metal (andrew wk).
 

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I ran my car into a building a few hours ago...now I read this.

As far as adrenaline goes, I'm off to a phenomenal start.
 

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holy, wtf happened man ?

Sammo : excellent post ! And, as others have said, it's very well timed : right in time for school ! I'm starting tomorrow, so the perpetual adrenaline is gonna be a good thing this year ... :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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very very nice post

This is an excellent post. I started school yesterday.
 

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Jiza101, i added you to my list (i'm [email protected]), look forward to talkin to ya.

Thanks for your support gav, as always.

Yeah well i guess if this were a competition Need-2-B-Pimpin might just be ahead. :cool:

And thanks to everyone else who replied.
 

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