Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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markone

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I work nights and have hard time meeting girls out side of work. Where do I go to meet more girls?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ApocalypseCow2

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I once sat down and brainstormed a list of locations to meet women. When I was done, I had well over 30 entries: bookstores, libraries, school, the mall, grocery shopping, the park, the city, Target, the sports bar....the list goes on.
 

Ricky

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Excellent idea to brainstorm the list. Then as a goal one shoudl go down the list and sarge at every location.

I think I have found my new goal. To sarge whereRicky hasn't sarged before! Thanks!

I will post about this later!
 

So Many Ways

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Originally posted by markone
I work nights and have hard time meeting girls out side of work. Where do I go to meet more girls?
Sounds like my situation. Do you have to work on the weekends (thus fri sat sun eventings)? When I worked nights during the weekend I pretty much had no social life for several months.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by markone
I work nights and have hard time meeting girls out side of work. Where do I go to meet more girls?
What do you do outside of the home when you aren't working? That's where you'd find women with similar interests.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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