"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Finally a Don Juan state of mind......wow

DjSoOHain

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Ok guys i think i have finally achieved it!!! :cool: I was looking at animal's today just sitting at the pond wondering what nature is all about, i noticed that all the things these animals do is action, action,action and action. Ok what does that have to do with being a don Juan??? I realized that Animals only trust their instinct and they go do what they want!! They don't think about it because they know they gonna be all right they just go do it! with no fear or no doubt they just do what their instinct is telling them to do! Now in my opinion Don Juan is a person that has the capabilities to do whatever he wants whenever he wants and he enjoys doing it.. he is one with nature and know's what life is abou t :)! So from now on i realized that the reason why I was such an AFC was of course because i didn't trust my instincts and that I had no action at all!! Basically from now on I do what i want and i have so much joy in it!!! Everyday I am living more in the moment and am feeling like a king everyday! Listen people!!! trust your instincts and go do what it tells you to do whatever your mind says just try it for a day... and tell me how the results were ;) I know its a very simple post but I bet every single person in the world were afraid of doing something they wanted to do!!!!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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schttrj

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koolio! absolute gold I must say!

Agreed. But would like to warn you of something, as quickly as you realise it, so quickly it fades out too! I have seen this myself. When the actual time of action comes, you just forget everything about your realisation. So, I would say not to jump into the sea right away, better if you take it slowly and one step at a time.

PS: Recently, I thought that I have conquered the approach anxiety and I have the balls to approach anyone, now I don't feel the state of mind to approach anybody. LOL. How funny! Like if the Return is as good as the Investment and all, ya know. So just take it slow and try to suck it up and internalise it.
 

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Ye it is absolutely gold. I just got this new girl today, man it was just all feelings, i let her knew that i desired her and that I am the most funnest and coolest out there.... i think she got hella turned on by that! Not only am I much easier to talk to girls now, its effecting all aspect's of my life makes it really exciting and challenging....
| Just follow your instincts guys that is what instincts were made for :) |
 
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