Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
I've been choding around. A lot of time has been wasted.
I've decided to continue my Bootcamp that will last me three years but I'm not going to bother posting it here anymore. I've been trying to stay positive lately but this site is nothing but a waste of time.
The content is horribel, most of the people here aren't living the lifestyle of a sex worthy man. 95% of the people here don't have decent game. (I can tell from the posts and questions)
The one thing that really got me out of my chodey ways was a particular guy on another forum. This guy was dedicated to learning this and now he is at a point where most people can't relate to him because he has been going out so much that the only person who can give him advice is himself because most of the other people can't relate.
As a final post I decided to atleast offer some value before going...
1. This isn't going to happen over night
This is going to take constant practice. You must do this over and over and over. If anyone differs then there lying to you because in any skill you learn you have to practice.
2. Have FUN!
You don't know how much energy you're wasting just thinking about what to do, what could go bad, when to approach, what to say, etc. Stop being so serious and acting like you're defusing a time bomb. Were talking to girls not a in battle, the most you will get into is a girl's who aren't so friendly.
3. Stop Worrying about what they think
Whether its good or bad who ****ing cares, stop being at the mercy of how people react to you.
4. Stop beating around the bush
Yes ok so getting girls isn't everything in the world, but having great social skills and the confidence of being good with women can get you far in your social life. An networking never hurt anyone. But think about what you're here for you want to learn to get women and get better with women so learn how to actually get women. (I must say DJ bible have some bad stuff and some decent content here and there) If you are still wondering why a girl flaked then you don't understand women. If you still can't find out why a girl gave you mixed signals then you don't understand women. The same generic and common question would never come up unless your a total newbie and just starting to learn how to get women.
5. Don't let your ego get to you
So you get lucky, or you happen to get a gf, now you think your a DJ/PUA or whatever you identify yourself as. That gives you no reason to stop practicing and it doesn't mean you are some big pimp now, because anyone can get lucky and get a girl. Don't fall into the trap of thinking your great with women now, just realize that you still can improve and get even better. I can't understand how people could put in so much time learning this and then stop after getting 1 gf and then when she leaves there back to square one because they went back to their afc ways in a relationship.
6. Have a gameplan
The thing that is good about theory is that they have some sort of path for you to actually learn from and realize what you're doing. The main important thing that every method or style has is that they all convey personality. That is the #1 thing that gets you laid, whether you realize it or not your convey personality when you are do such things. (Also understand the female psychology, frames, and mindset)
7. Get out your comfort zone
Stop being scared, change it up, stop doing the same stuff over and over. Stop making an excuse your just scared, jump out there and try it.
8. STICK TO IT
You must do this constantly and constantly. Don't worry about seeing improvement, your only better than your last approach. Don't compare your results with someone else, compare yourself to yourself. Compare you now to the you 1 week ago. Compare you now to you 1 year ago. Weren't you doing better than last year? of course so you are improving. Just stick to it.
Well I think that is enough for people to get out of this trance that there in. Don't let an internet ego get to you, thinking your a pimp. While your on the internet boosting your ego there is a guy out there going through the whole process who is living the lifestyle that you wish you had. Everyone could have it so why waste time and act like something you aren't. Go out and practice. If you want to make an excuse that your worrying about making money then don't bother posting here and find a business forum so you can talk about business.
That's it and so long...
I've decided to continue my Bootcamp that will last me three years but I'm not going to bother posting it here anymore. I've been trying to stay positive lately but this site is nothing but a waste of time.
The content is horribel, most of the people here aren't living the lifestyle of a sex worthy man. 95% of the people here don't have decent game. (I can tell from the posts and questions)
The one thing that really got me out of my chodey ways was a particular guy on another forum. This guy was dedicated to learning this and now he is at a point where most people can't relate to him because he has been going out so much that the only person who can give him advice is himself because most of the other people can't relate.
As a final post I decided to atleast offer some value before going...
1. This isn't going to happen over night
This is going to take constant practice. You must do this over and over and over. If anyone differs then there lying to you because in any skill you learn you have to practice.
2. Have FUN!
You don't know how much energy you're wasting just thinking about what to do, what could go bad, when to approach, what to say, etc. Stop being so serious and acting like you're defusing a time bomb. Were talking to girls not a in battle, the most you will get into is a girl's who aren't so friendly.
3. Stop Worrying about what they think
Whether its good or bad who ****ing cares, stop being at the mercy of how people react to you.
4. Stop beating around the bush
Yes ok so getting girls isn't everything in the world, but having great social skills and the confidence of being good with women can get you far in your social life. An networking never hurt anyone. But think about what you're here for you want to learn to get women and get better with women so learn how to actually get women. (I must say DJ bible have some bad stuff and some decent content here and there) If you are still wondering why a girl flaked then you don't understand women. If you still can't find out why a girl gave you mixed signals then you don't understand women. The same generic and common question would never come up unless your a total newbie and just starting to learn how to get women.
5. Don't let your ego get to you
So you get lucky, or you happen to get a gf, now you think your a DJ/PUA or whatever you identify yourself as. That gives you no reason to stop practicing and it doesn't mean you are some big pimp now, because anyone can get lucky and get a girl. Don't fall into the trap of thinking your great with women now, just realize that you still can improve and get even better. I can't understand how people could put in so much time learning this and then stop after getting 1 gf and then when she leaves there back to square one because they went back to their afc ways in a relationship.
6. Have a gameplan
The thing that is good about theory is that they have some sort of path for you to actually learn from and realize what you're doing. The main important thing that every method or style has is that they all convey personality. That is the #1 thing that gets you laid, whether you realize it or not your convey personality when you are do such things. (Also understand the female psychology, frames, and mindset)
7. Get out your comfort zone
Stop being scared, change it up, stop doing the same stuff over and over. Stop making an excuse your just scared, jump out there and try it.
8. STICK TO IT
You must do this constantly and constantly. Don't worry about seeing improvement, your only better than your last approach. Don't compare your results with someone else, compare yourself to yourself. Compare you now to the you 1 week ago. Compare you now to you 1 year ago. Weren't you doing better than last year? of course so you are improving. Just stick to it.
Well I think that is enough for people to get out of this trance that there in. Don't let an internet ego get to you, thinking your a pimp. While your on the internet boosting your ego there is a guy out there going through the whole process who is living the lifestyle that you wish you had. Everyone could have it so why waste time and act like something you aren't. Go out and practice. If you want to make an excuse that your worrying about making money then don't bother posting here and find a business forum so you can talk about business.
That's it and so long...