"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Doe Boii

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Alright, so here is a big part in why I don't get too many girls. Where i live guys are fighting all the time, and if you don't fight then your considered a "punk" or "scary". Now, I don't like fighting because i'm short (5 foot 2) and skinny (90-100 lbs) and i'm 15 yrs old in the 9th grade w/ some pretty big dudes. Even the girls where im at fight, and they love to have a man who fights alot or established himself as a fighter, because if they have a problem with some dude they man can knock him out. This just doesn't work for me because im frail

What are some things i can do to still pull girls who like a man that fights alot?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Plec07

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Can't say I can help you from experience. The only thing I can think is something Mystery did in the book 'The Game'. He was doing his DHV magic stuff and when an ex-soldier tried to AMOG him he threatened to use magic to kill him. Chances are thats not gonna work for you lol.

You could always just build yourself up and ally yourself with some big dudes. Being short won't be too much of a problem if you build yourself up, it'll do wonders for your game aswell as fighting.
 

Doe Boii

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but i dont know any good exercise regimes and im too lazy too stick with them, i always quit or just stop doing it. I dont have money for gyms, all i can do is push ups and sit ups. would this build any muscle on me?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Plec07

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Thats all I do, sit-ups and pushups. And occasionally use my guitars as weights to lift lol. It's better than nothing. Oh and about being too lazy... STOP BEING LAZY.
 

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LOL... What the hell is going on in the world these days!!! Idk what to say...how to get stronger?? Yea eat McDonalds and workout. Lift heavy.
If not then why dont you move into civilized HS, were guys dont bang each other heads off..
 

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If you feel too lazy to work out, it might just be that you are tired. I typically have problems sleeping, and rarely sleep more than 6.25 hrs /night, and I find that if I get at least 7 hrs of sleep or more I feel better during the day and working out feels like something I deserve to do, rather than it feeling like a chore when I am tired.

As far as what you can do, do plenty of push ups and sit ups. Also get a pull up bar. They aren't expensive and they are easy to use. You should also try to run or jog each day, to get your heart beating faster. Try at least 2 miles a day to start.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Doe Boii

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well i can get up and get active it's just that when i try to, i plan up my own little work out schedule and it never seems like enough and feels like im getting nothing accomplished. i dont acquire any extra muscle or nothin so it feels like wasted time. what would be a good schedule to follow to see change?
 

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From personal experience dude, fighting just isn't worth it. Win or lose, there's no satisfaction, and win or lose, you'll probably still get in trouble. So some advice, if you're going to fight, it would be wise not to do it on school grounds, especially if your school has a lot of cameras(And snitches). The bigger man is the person who backs out of the fight, rather than provokes it.
 

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I am a big dude and some people that hang aroung with me say that they feel safe around me. If you are short you still can go to the gym and get some muscle. GOOD LUCK.
 

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I understand your desire not to fight but if you have to. Find a good gym that can train you mainly in martial arts eat more protein gain more muscle. 2 If you can't train in martial train yourself and eat a lot I figure you are young so you still got some growing to do. 3. If none of those things are for you go for the other guys nuts. Nothing fancy somehow you just got to hit/kick/bite him in the nuts. Some people say oh that's wrong but I declare that in a fight nothing is wrong you must do everthing in your power to win. BTW you will see a lot of girl fights in your life mainly over guys. I think it's funny because women are just as violent as men.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't be lazy, You are probably stronger than you think. Either kick the ****er in the nutz, or punch him in the throat, either way he is going down. Instant win, BUT careful with the throat too hard and you can kill him lol Wait go for the kidneys :O Anyways as for working out. Drink raw eggs, Pure protien I am about 5'11" and 150 pounds of pure muscle, How I did it. I drink raw eggs every morning (2-3) and or just before I start working out (15 mins before hand) I also get a few weights to train with, push ups, get a brother sister, friend to hold it there, and do some serious push ups, if you can do one handers,. Sit ups same thing applies BUT put the weight on your chest and hold it here, and sit at a 45 degree angle, it strengths the muscles in your stomach, (abs) And once you feel a burning sensation start doing them if you feel tired, get back at 45 and hold it, do not stop. Same thing applies for pushups, hold half way, Take breaks every 30 minutes, or if you can't move or anything take a break, cool off. have a drink/smoke w/e to cool off and go back at it until you can't to the push ups/sit ups without the weights on.

Do this for 2 weeks and have a look at your results.

Mitch
 

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Doe Boii said:
Alright, so here is a big part in why I don't get too many girls. Where i live guys are fighting all the time, and if you don't fight then your considered a "punk" or "scary". Now, I don't like fighting because i'm short (5 foot 2) and skinny (90-100 lbs) and i'm 15 yrs old in the 9th grade w/ some pretty big dudes. Even the girls where im at fight, and they love to have a man who fights alot or established himself as a fighter, because if they have a problem with some dude they man can knock him out. This just doesn't work for me because im frail

What are some things i can do to still pull girls who like a man that fights alot?
I think people are missing the deep underlying point here, its not about exercise regimes or what to eat, I am assuming here that you feel the need to prove yourself to the ladies. Secondly, a real man would not strike another man, women, child, or animal, unless in self defense. Dont feel the need to conform, that right there shows weakness, show strength and originality by choosing not to fight.

But, whatever, your call dude.
 

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Doe Boii said:
Alright, so here is a big part in why I don't get too many girls. Where i live guys are fighting all the time, and if you don't fight then your considered a "punk" or "scary". Now, I don't like fighting because i'm short (5 foot 2) and skinny (90-100 lbs) and i'm 15 yrs old in the 9th grade w/ some pretty big dudes. Even the girls where im at fight, and they love to have a man who fights alot or established himself as a fighter, because if they have a problem with some dude they man can knock him out. This just doesn't work for me because im frail

What are some things i can do to still pull girls who like a man that fights alot?
I feel you son Only thing I can say go to the Y or something
 
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