"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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swordfish01

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Was out last night at a popular bar.

Immediately saw 2 women, 1 was a 9 and the other a 7.

I approached them ****y funny and had there attention. The 7 showed major interest in me, and bought me a drink and insisted I kept drinking.

While the 9 was being boring and barely opening up.

Finally I got some Kino in on her with some hugs, high fives, etc. And she started to like me also.

However at the end of the night she would nt give me her phone number, but she gave me her friends. I know because I had got her friends about 30 minutes before.

I neged her a few times and she responded well, but I couldn't get her to beg to see me again and give me the phone number?

She mentioned she was into girls a bunch of times...

Any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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cut your losses. i guess she just doesnt swing our way, if u know what i mean. cant change it, oh well. at least u got the 7.
 
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Well, if she liked girls, why didnt you ask her what kind of girls she likes, and play some of your game to get another girl for a threesome?
 
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Who cares,she is one hb 9 out of millions in the world. Plus,you got the hb 7 number who was really into you. What is wrong with a hb7,better then a hb6,5,4,3,2,1,0.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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