Field Report

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

I was at a bar watching the game last night, and I noticed a chic. She was pretty-good looking, so I decided to approach and talk to her. She was into the game, so it was pretty easy just to sit and bs with her for a bit. Then the game ended, and she left to go to the bathroom, and her friends got up to leave. I looked around, just because there were some of my friends there too and I wanted to know where they had gone.

Anyways, I spotted the girl, and waved her over, and she did. I said, "Hey I've got to get goin' but before I do, could I get your number?"

She says immediately, "I have a bf." I say, "Okay," and get up and leave.

Now, I've been thinking a little bit today, and I know how I will be able to actually close a girl. Instead of saying, "Could I get your number," I could say, "I have to get going, but let me get your number first so we can talk later."

This has been a learning experience for me, and so far the most important thing that I have learned is rejection is not bad at all. This is really only my third time to show no fear and actually attempt at getting one/some number(s).

I had established rapport with her during the game and even displayed a little (probably minimal) ****y/funny, because I'm not real sure how to play that off. I'm naturally sarcastic, but how can that work out in the field. Any help would be appreciated.

Thanks

 

[syncmaster]

A thought... you could have also replied something along the lines of "That's ok, he can make us supper" or something cheesy like that to throw her off.

 

[The Nice Guy is Gone]

That would've made her laugh some more I'm sure. I'm just not too quick on my feet yet, but I'll get there. It's just going to take some practice. At least I am finally getting off my a** and getting out there, right.

Also, it seems like all the girls I seem to go after do have a bf, but I've learned that it doesn't matter as long as your respectful.

Any other ideas, guys?

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Yeah all of the good girls have BF's. Looks like we need to learn the art of GF stealing.

IMO-- Any experience is good experience.

 

[sapphire]

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