"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Field Report: Why you should not put up with women's BS

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Field Report At a Glance (FRAG): Met a 6.5 with an entitled attitude at a karaoke bar. After sprinkling me with water, she proceeded to dump half a cup of water on my chest for no reason other than her entertainment. To her surprise, I stood up, filled my cup with water and dumped it on her head.

Not all my nights go well every time I go out. However, I tend to own my successes and failures (yes, they do happen) and learn from them; this field report will give you an idea of what I mean. It was early on a Friday night. There was a 6.5 sitting on my right at a karaoke bar and I was bored during the early stage of the night. I started a conversation with her and immediately sensed a bitch shield. Ironically, I was not even attracted to her, yet she thought I would bow down for her pussy. Five minutes after the conversation, she began warming up to me--or so I thought. She gave me a really bad neg about something stupid ( I think it was my shirt and how she thought my "player moves were ridiculous"). I chuckled it off until she gave me a second, harsher neg, which I counteracted with "here, have a piece of gum."Her immediate reaction was "are you saying I have bad breath?" to which I replied with "no comment" and a harmless smirk. She was shocked, dipped her fingers in her water cup and sprinkled me, which I found amusing. I playfully sprinkled her back with very little water. Little did I know that she was actually testing me. She was even more shocked that I sprinkled her back (may God be with those AFCs out there) and dramatically proceeded to dump half a cup of freezing cold water on my chest/face.

It was difficult to keep my cool at the beginning, as I am disgusted by disrespectful behavior and wanted to punch this woman. :box: However, I took a deep breath and decided to strike back when she expected it the least. I got up, filled my cup with freezing cold water (ice included) and returned to my seat. "Hey," I said to her and calmly dumped the whole cup on her head as she turned my way. She freaked out and began laughing like this --> :crackup: before stating "you've got some balls :D "
Ever since this experience, she behaves extremely well, approaches me to ask how I'm doing/start a conversation, and invites me to sit with her. I would not be surprised if I found out that she finds me attractive.

Moral of the story: do not ever put up with anyone's BS, especially female entitlement issues. Stand up for yourself or deal with the consequences.

Keep being money,

-R
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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badboyjmm

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Excellent post, I didn't even know that girl would just test out guys for no apparent reason... I understand the case for sh!t test, but if she's not trying to be with you... what's the point.

It makes me think about last Friday, I was wasted and I blacked out. (I still don't remember half of the night)
Apparently I was cursing out two girls that I see around at the bar I usually go to. The next day I saw them and they were saying how I was so mean to them and what not... I just say: ''I'm sorry but I WAS DRUNK'' and proceed to laugh. They didn't seem mad at all and we continue talking like nothing happen...
 

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I've lost count of the number of chicks I've banged after out-negging or nuking their attempts to belittle me like they'd done to a thousand other guys.
I learnt very quickly after coming here that you should never be afraid to offend a woman. They seem to actually get turned on by a man who doesn't take their crap and who completely destroys their frame-grab attempts.
 
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