TheException
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Got a FR here from a week I just spent with 16 friends of mine at a house in North Carolina. Consists of a successful seduction and some wtf moments of realization that ive had to slap in the face.
So 16 people all my age(college age) except 2. One is a cool guy who is 27 and dating one of the girls in our group and the other is 29 who is the sister of one of the girls. All in all theres 10 guys, 6 girls...4 are dating guys on vacation, 1 is the single 29 yr old sister(HB8), and 1 is a single 22 yr old(HB7).
I knew everyone coming in but the HB8 and i made sure to introduce myself the first opportunity that presented itself. I knew she was older but I didnt care. She was very short(maybe 5'1), skinny, and had D boobs. A glorious combination. During the first day we swim in the pool and a couple people get sloppy drunk while the rest of us just drink to relax. At night everyone drinks heavily and we play every drinking game there is to play.
While playing a card game...HB8 starts picking on me. So of course I counter and maker her drink when I get a card correct. We start bantering and my personality just suuuuccks her in. Little confidence here, sprinkle with c+f, plus dominating other guys in the game = shes wet. I just KNOW ITS GAME ON with her....just comes from experience. I dont need to analyze "IOI"s or anything anymore...I JUST KNOW. People end up leaving the game and just me and HB8 continue to play. I tone down the personality and let her talk and "open up". I mainly just listen and ask questions.
People start passing out and in my room there are two beds. Two guys per bed....HB8 was only staying for a few days so she doesnt have a bed. Well as i clean up in the bathroom i see her with her pillow and blanket. She asks me:
HB: Where can I sleep? Theres like nowhere
Me: Last room on the right. First bed on the left.
Without saying a word, she smiles and goes right to my room and closes the door. NOTICE HOW YOU HAVE TO LEAD. Women can never just be like: "I WANT TO BANG YOU....WHERE IS YOUR BED???!!!!"
On the way to my room, the guy that is supposed to share my bed runs into me. He walks in, sees her in our bed...and immediately grabs his pillow and bounces. Nice guy lol. I close the door. The other two are passed out drunk in their bed so I go to work. Start playfully teasing her and tossing and moving her around so I can "get comfy". At one point I just lift her chin(her head was resting on my shoulder) and start making out. Within 10 mins were fvcking. End up going for round 2 5 mins after....turns out her boobs are fake....which are awesome by the way. She said she was A cups before.
Next day there is no awkwardness but she doesnt make it obvious we hooked up, nor do I. Second night as we lay in bed making out:
HB: I got my period this morning
Me: I dont care
HB: Good, we use a towel or something
Me: Lets go to the shower
Try to bang in the shower but the height difference is quite a struggle to make angles work lol, and water is sh1t lubricant. Go back to bed and bang it out on towel.
She has to leave the very next morning early so I see her off. Ends up facebooking me and then i # close on facebook. She texts me and just asks
HB8: Sooo does my sister know about us hooking up? Im going to see her in a week and dont want her to hear it about from someone else
Me: No. Im not the bragging type
HB8: Oh good. I didnt think so. Just dont think its cool if she knows im sleeping with her friends.
At this point texting turns into some rapport building and I make sure to never make it a priority. Shes in a different state from everyone else but will be flying up in a month to go on a camping trip with us. Besides the fact that shes about 7 years older than me and in a different state until next summer...I still noticed a few wtf "feelings". Not feelings in the gay, lovey dovey sense, but feelings of loss.
My mind start racing and thinking about how good the sex was...which led to thinking about next month and how good the sex is going to be....which led to her coming to our town next summer and thinking about slaying it again....then led to a feeling of loss. Almost like a "I miss her(sex)". So whenever AFC thoughts like this come up...I MUST TAKE ACTION. I immediately hit up another plate from my college town and schedule a date for early this week. Ive got plans to get back on track for my career goals and study. Just getting back to the normal me pretty much....but i want to discuss "those feelings" and what they really are, so bear with me, its worth it.
Anytime you really connect with a girl and hookup....your mind is going to always want more. And when barriers are placed that prevent that, whether it be distance, shes in a relationship with another guy, etc...your mind feels like its a "loss". You think about the girl and fantasize about the girl...all in hopes that it comes true. I even asked myself if its possible to be happily married to a woman 7 years older than you? WTF....lol. The key is...to notice this AFC mindset and correct it. I made plans with another woman and have a board at my house to remind me never to get emotional over a woman you just met....it reminds me of all the women ive overpursued and pushed away because i was clingy and tried to force relationships. BEING ALPHA IS A PROCESS....im not where i want to be exactly. Im leagues ahead of everyone i know and my former self....but i cant let these sort of feelings facilitate into action. Sure...i really connected with that girl. Sure...we had great sex. Sure...she was super fun and nice......BUT IT WAS 3 FVCKING DAYS. Who knows if/what red flags she has.
The vacation was a success and really re-energized me. As far as this woman is concerned....shes miles and miles away and im not going to make weird concessions to see her. Shes coming to our trip next month? Great. See her then. The key from the story is not only how I led the interaction and successfully closed...but how AFC things/thoughts come around time and time again....and how you must relieve yourself of such things.
So 16 people all my age(college age) except 2. One is a cool guy who is 27 and dating one of the girls in our group and the other is 29 who is the sister of one of the girls. All in all theres 10 guys, 6 girls...4 are dating guys on vacation, 1 is the single 29 yr old sister(HB8), and 1 is a single 22 yr old(HB7).
I knew everyone coming in but the HB8 and i made sure to introduce myself the first opportunity that presented itself. I knew she was older but I didnt care. She was very short(maybe 5'1), skinny, and had D boobs. A glorious combination. During the first day we swim in the pool and a couple people get sloppy drunk while the rest of us just drink to relax. At night everyone drinks heavily and we play every drinking game there is to play.
While playing a card game...HB8 starts picking on me. So of course I counter and maker her drink when I get a card correct. We start bantering and my personality just suuuuccks her in. Little confidence here, sprinkle with c+f, plus dominating other guys in the game = shes wet. I just KNOW ITS GAME ON with her....just comes from experience. I dont need to analyze "IOI"s or anything anymore...I JUST KNOW. People end up leaving the game and just me and HB8 continue to play. I tone down the personality and let her talk and "open up". I mainly just listen and ask questions.
People start passing out and in my room there are two beds. Two guys per bed....HB8 was only staying for a few days so she doesnt have a bed. Well as i clean up in the bathroom i see her with her pillow and blanket. She asks me:
HB: Where can I sleep? Theres like nowhere
Me: Last room on the right. First bed on the left.
Without saying a word, she smiles and goes right to my room and closes the door. NOTICE HOW YOU HAVE TO LEAD. Women can never just be like: "I WANT TO BANG YOU....WHERE IS YOUR BED???!!!!"
On the way to my room, the guy that is supposed to share my bed runs into me. He walks in, sees her in our bed...and immediately grabs his pillow and bounces. Nice guy lol. I close the door. The other two are passed out drunk in their bed so I go to work. Start playfully teasing her and tossing and moving her around so I can "get comfy". At one point I just lift her chin(her head was resting on my shoulder) and start making out. Within 10 mins were fvcking. End up going for round 2 5 mins after....turns out her boobs are fake....which are awesome by the way. She said she was A cups before.
Next day there is no awkwardness but she doesnt make it obvious we hooked up, nor do I. Second night as we lay in bed making out:
HB: I got my period this morning
Me: I dont care
HB: Good, we use a towel or something
Me: Lets go to the shower
Try to bang in the shower but the height difference is quite a struggle to make angles work lol, and water is sh1t lubricant. Go back to bed and bang it out on towel.
She has to leave the very next morning early so I see her off. Ends up facebooking me and then i # close on facebook. She texts me and just asks
HB8: Sooo does my sister know about us hooking up? Im going to see her in a week and dont want her to hear it about from someone else
Me: No. Im not the bragging type
HB8: Oh good. I didnt think so. Just dont think its cool if she knows im sleeping with her friends.
At this point texting turns into some rapport building and I make sure to never make it a priority. Shes in a different state from everyone else but will be flying up in a month to go on a camping trip with us. Besides the fact that shes about 7 years older than me and in a different state until next summer...I still noticed a few wtf "feelings". Not feelings in the gay, lovey dovey sense, but feelings of loss.
My mind start racing and thinking about how good the sex was...which led to thinking about next month and how good the sex is going to be....which led to her coming to our town next summer and thinking about slaying it again....then led to a feeling of loss. Almost like a "I miss her(sex)". So whenever AFC thoughts like this come up...I MUST TAKE ACTION. I immediately hit up another plate from my college town and schedule a date for early this week. Ive got plans to get back on track for my career goals and study. Just getting back to the normal me pretty much....but i want to discuss "those feelings" and what they really are, so bear with me, its worth it.
Anytime you really connect with a girl and hookup....your mind is going to always want more. And when barriers are placed that prevent that, whether it be distance, shes in a relationship with another guy, etc...your mind feels like its a "loss". You think about the girl and fantasize about the girl...all in hopes that it comes true. I even asked myself if its possible to be happily married to a woman 7 years older than you? WTF....lol. The key is...to notice this AFC mindset and correct it. I made plans with another woman and have a board at my house to remind me never to get emotional over a woman you just met....it reminds me of all the women ive overpursued and pushed away because i was clingy and tried to force relationships. BEING ALPHA IS A PROCESS....im not where i want to be exactly. Im leagues ahead of everyone i know and my former self....but i cant let these sort of feelings facilitate into action. Sure...i really connected with that girl. Sure...we had great sex. Sure...she was super fun and nice......BUT IT WAS 3 FVCKING DAYS. Who knows if/what red flags she has.
The vacation was a success and really re-energized me. As far as this woman is concerned....shes miles and miles away and im not going to make weird concessions to see her. Shes coming to our trip next month? Great. See her then. The key from the story is not only how I led the interaction and successfully closed...but how AFC things/thoughts come around time and time again....and how you must relieve yourself of such things.